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Retired from 25 years of teaching and supporting people to escape the drama triangle of conflict and address conflict collaboratively.

Burnaby, British Columbia
Joined November 2011
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Managing Emotions at the Holidays : Ki Moments Blog: judyringer.com/blog/managing…
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9 holiday conflict survival tips from a mediator lenski.com/9-holiday-conflic… via @tammylenski
A meaningful apology includes emotional recognition. theconflictjourney.com/2015/… via @valueconfict
Excellent summary of Bernie Mayer's analysis of conflict avoidance. madmimi.com/s/f70e84?o=tm via @madmimi
An enemy is a person whose story we have not heard. – Gene Knudsen Hoffman
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Like one "retweet" - [happy feet dance] teapaw.org/karenedawson/status/62…
If you've accomplished even one little thing today that needed to be done, treat yourself to a discreet victory dance.
Never assume that you have no power when you are lower in a hierarchy. theconflictjourney.com/2015/… via @valueconfict
The Guest House: Managing Emotions with Awareness : Ki Moments Blog: judyringer.com/blog/the-gues…
Exploration of alternatives to mediation helps parties face the situation squarely and deeply. theconflictjourney.com/2015/… via @valueconfict
12 Ways Successful People Handle Toxic People entm.ag/1EfuO3c via @Entrepreneur
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Great article by Joeseph Grenby (Difficult Conversations) on resolving conflict through email. hbr.org/2015/03/you-can-have…
Between stimulus and response is the freedom to choose. (Viktor Frankl)
Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. (Winston Churchill)
Effective conflict engagement: a learning conversation not a proving conversation theconflictjourney.com/2015/… via @valueconfict
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Curiosity - our favorite word for 2015: @mediatebcsoc blog mediatebcblog.com/2014/12/31…
Paying Attention on My Morning Walk : Ki Moments Blog: judyringer.com/blog/paying-a…
Sometimes staying with conflict may be exactly what is needed to find a way forward. theconflictjourney.com/2014/… via @valueconfict
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