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There’s an Arabic saying “If there is victory in the beginning then in the end is the harshest kind of defeat” and any time i hit extreme joys i get nervous cuz i kno life is sardonic in its balancing lows to regain equilibrium. Joy, love, interwoven with pain, loss. Everytime..
A woman liking you is one of the 8th wonders of the world. If I had it my way id be 345lbs eating hot cheetos in a cave somewhere, but something about a woman touching your harden body, outline your brows as she peers into your eyes. I’ve tried many dopamines but nothing comes closest to genuine desire from a pretty girl..
Can lie to women as much as you want. “No I don’t have a girlfriend, no im not married, no I don’t have kids, yes this Airbnb is my house..” The lies don’t matter becuz soon as u sleep with her & u make the sex great she’ll rationalize all the lies to keep seeing you..
Nearly impossible not to have an affair with an attractive high energy young woman in her 20s who sees you as a mentor/authoritative figure at your work place. Especially, if you work closely together & both have playful personalities…
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Something cathartic about the things you run from while the sun is up inevitably catching you when the sun goes down..
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The heaviness I feel looking back on every chapter just shows how real it was to me.
My mother said she hasn’t talked to my father since 2024. Lost contact. Odd thing to say for someone who constantly told me to call him. Only makes me think he passed away & doesn’t have the heart to tell me. Our relationship ending how it was defined, no goodbyes, only disappearances..
The maturity in men that comes post 30 is young women’s kryptonite. In your 20s if you’re dating a girl you really like and she disappears your whole world shatters. Post 30, you let her go do her thing and when she’s ready you just pick back up. No where u been’s, jus wassup’s..
Very hard concept for most men to understand that most women want to be a part of your list, your story of bedded vixens. They want to be a chapter, an anthology, never the whole book. They want to cry over you, they want your heart torn in between them & others. They want to know they won you against insurmountable odds..
Sex really is how you discover you how good a liar women truly are. “Whose pu**y is this.” “Is this the biggest uve ever had..” and ofcourse she’ll answer yes but it’s just how emphatic the yes is. I mean they really stare into your eyes and make you really believe that shit..
“No person is sent to you by accident..” is so much worse when you didn’t capitalize on that connection. Like some thing more was meant to be there but I wasn’t ready for it, the timing was off. I had family obligations, work was hectic. I just, I wish, I mean.. i needed more time to experience what was sent to me.
Everytime I’ve prayed to God for deliverance, he’s delivered it. But only in spurts, only for days, only for weeks, only enough so theirs always a crawl back. A man shouldnt hav to rely on anyone, anything, for this long. But every few months there i am, head tilted high..
My ex used to wear this to the gym. She asked me once or twice if it was okay (didnt answer). Truth is rather had her wear whatever the girl in the background was wearing. But I believe you should never try to change or fix a woman from how you met her, just enjoy the moments..
Always fascinated how i’ll get soggy cereal eating young guys trying to tell me how im not making any sense, and women don’t respond to such behavior.
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I once’s missed an ex girlfriend’s birthday party who was acting distant. 45 people there plus family and her own boyfriend, no where to be found. My phone blowing up, “where the hell are you..”. Next day i come over, no present, tell her “sorry, it’s a long story..” that girl nearly cried for hours.
For the next 6 months non stop texts, i love you’s, buying me presents, asking to hanging out more. It broke my heart, that breaking her heart was the answer..
I think this is true. Girls get bored so easily. Any time a man has loved prior to me, the relationship was practically over before it even started. I admit I like to chase. It’s far more romantic for a man to inspire an entire surrender of self in a woman than the inverse. When it comes to men, unadulterated devotion to a singular woman can actually be quite destructive, but for girls the feeling is freeing.
I’m going to tell you guys a cold hard bitter truth because i find all these arbitrary “advice” lists these girlies are making to help other girls amusing. You can tell women what to do and 10 seconds later they’re fucking the opposite of that.
Women do not listen to advice, they just live in the moment. Story time..
I met a girl i really liked who introduced me to her best friend, who was stunning. So i went behind her back and hooked up with her friend (i lied and said I wasn’t interested in her friend, even tho she knew her friend liked me, again in the moment women just go with the flow). Fast forward she tells her friend right after and they both cut me off for months. The stunning friend I slept with still hooked up with me but said to keep it quiet.
3 months later I dm the initial girl who chewed me out (part of the process) and even tho I fucked her friend (and still was) she still talked to me. Two weeks after these DMs we slept together. Moral of the story women live in the moment, so not list of how they should operate makes a difference if you’re that guy she likes..
The incel men in my comments want me to tell women what to do. So here we go:
- stop listening to brain rot podcasts (like Call Her Daddy). No smart woman I know listens to this stuff. It’s entertainment at best but certainly not female empowerment. Think about the kind of life you want to build and the kind of woman you actually want to be. Not every conversation about sex, relationships, dating etc is “wisdom.” Some things are sacred.
- do not confuse independence with not needing anyone. You can be independent and still lean on others. You can be independent and still want a husband and a family. You need to allow men the opportunity to be men. Men like to feel needed. Men like to feel like they’re providing value to you. Let them.
- men are in fact not the enemy. Stop treating them as such. You can acknowledge the very real problems women face. But that does not mean men, as a whole, are the problem. Contempt and bitterness will not build better relationships (with anyone).
- have standards but make sure you meet them yourself. Would you date you? If you want someone disciplined loyal emotionally mature financially stable funny kind smart etc then you better be able to tit for tat. You can’t expect the world and give nothing in return. If you’re not the woman you want to be yet, focus your attention on becoming her.
- you must learn the difference between a good man and an exciting man. Inconsistent / emotionally unavailable/ hot and cold is not “chemistry.” Red flags. Move on. Or continue to get led on and quit complaining about them idk what to tell you. If you’re confused, they don’t like you. If they like you, you will know. This goes for guys as well.
- you can be warm, receptive, nurturing and kind and still be intelligent and ambitious. You’re multifaceted. Your softness is not a weakness. It makes you feminine. Embrace that side of you. The world needs it.
- do not punish good men for what bad men have done. Be discerning but you cannot begin a new relationship with suspicions, tests, or expectation of disappointment. (If you expect it, you’ll get it.) It’s not fair to the new guy or to you.
- learn how to communicate without testing manipulating or keeping score. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Men are not mind readers. They’re actually especially bad at it.
- a relationship is not a competition. Stop keeping score. You’re not trying to “win” you’re trying to build something together.
- take accountability for your patterns. If you keep having the same arguments or making the mistakes or going for the same kind of guy and getting your heartbroken, at a certain point you’ve got to acknowledge it might be a you problem. Work on that part of you that needs addressing.
- be the kind of woman a good man would want to build a life with. What does that mean? It’s about accountability, reciprocity, and character. Are you loyal? Are you dependable? Can you love well? Can you compromise? Do you make someone else’s life better by being in it? Do you bring peace.
Opened my facebook for walk down memory lane. Man, to be 22 again and a young girls muse. People always say why are you so jaded by love and it’s like man, i went from girls who had personality and vulnerability to ones with lip fillers, botox and more concerned about twitter popularity & Ig likes. So yah.. im jaded.
Absolutely fuckin true. I don’t wanna dox my self or name drop but i used to be REALLY good at basketball. One my closest friends is Nick Young, and when I tell you I used to work 10x harder than that man and still couldn’t crack half of a half of his natural talent. We’d be in the gym working out and the he’d do at 45% my 100. Levels..












