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What is one supposed to do when a roommate suddenly moves out without notice? I kept reminding our former roommate Mia that rent was due and suddenly I got this text on the morning of Halloween. Then she was gone. Yeah, the home fell into disarray when we were sick with the flu and depressed. Yes, the trash wasn’t taken out as much as it should have been. Yes ants somehow got in our home when it rained. But I don’t think that justifies doing this to the rest of the folks still living here. 🚩🚩🚩
What is one supposed to do when a roommate suddenly moves out without notice? I kept reminding our former roommate Mia that rent was due and suddenly I got this text on the morning of Halloween. Then she was gone. Yeah, the home fell into disarray when we were sick with the flu and depressed. Yes, the trash wasn’t taken out as much as it should have been. Yes ants somehow got in our home when it rained. But I don’t think that justifies doing this to the rest of the folks still living here. 🚩🚩🚩
i had sex with my husband’s best friend because my husband hadn’t touched me in almost a year, but yesterday his best friend called me and said, “please, don’t ever contact me again. your husband has found out everything.”
i immediately started crying.
i called my husband, but he didn’t answer.
when he finally returned home, he was unusually calm.
i expected him to shout, insult me or ask for a divorce.
instead, he placed a small envelope on the table and told me to open it.
inside were printed screenshots of every message his best friend and i had exchanged.
i started begging him to forgive me.
he looked at me and said:
“do you know why i stopped sleeping with you?”
i couldn’t answer.
then he showed me a hospital report.
my husband had been diagnosed with a condition that made having children difficult, and he had been hiding it from me because he was afraid i would leave him.
i started crying and told him that cheating was the biggest mistake of my life.
but his next words destroyed me.
“i know you cheated. what i don’t understand is why my best friend told me he had been doing it for three years.”
THREE YEARS?
i had only been with him once.
my husband looked at me and said:
“so which one of you is lying?”
would you believe your husband or his best friend?
Well, this can’t be good. It’s always something!!! My knee has been hurting since Saturday and then the muscle that runs along my shin bone is excruciatingly sore.
I’ve applied ice, rested it, tried not to be on it and propped it up while working. Well, none of that worked apparently. I’ll recheck tomorrow.
i slept with my best friend’s husband the night before her wedding anniversary, and the next morning, she sent me a message saying, “thank you for saving my marriage.” 😭
i read that message almost ten times.
she didn’t know what had happened between us.
or at least, that’s what i thought.
i called her and asked what she meant.
she said her husband had confessed something to her the previous night, and for the first time in years, she finally understood why he had been acting strangely.
i started panicking.
i asked her what he told her.
she replied, “he told me he had been seeing another woman, but he refused to tell me her name.”
then she sent another message:
“i already know it’s you.”
my heart dropped.
i begged her to forgive me, but she replied with something i wasn’t prepared for.
“i’m not angry with you. i’m angry because you don’t know what he was trying to find out.”
i asked her what she meant.
she called me immediately and said:
“my husband told me he slept with you because you promised him you could help him prove that i’ve been cheating on him.”
I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON MY BEST FRIEND’S HUSBAND’S FRIEND, OR ANYONE ELSE. 😭
would you forgive your best friend if she slept with your husband, or would that friendship be over forever?
i got pregnant for my landlord after my husband refused to pay our rent for six months, but when i told my husband the truth, he smiled and asked me when the baby was due.
i was expecting him to beat me, divorce me, or throw me out.
instead, he brought me food, told me to rest, and promised to take care of me throughout the pregnancy.
i couldn’t understand it.
one night, i finally asked him why he wasn’t angry.
he looked at me and said, “because you think you’re the only person who has been keeping secrets in this marriage.”
then he showed me a bank statement.
for six months, my husband had been secretly paying our landlord twice our normal rent.
i asked him where the extra money was going.
he said, “your landlord has been collecting that money to keep quiet about something.”
i started shaking.
my husband opened his phone and showed me a photograph of our landlord holding a newborn baby.
underneath it was a message:
“the child is yours. when are you going to tell your wife?”
i looked at my husband in disbelief.
then he said:
“that baby was born before we got married.”
😭💔 who betrayed whom first in this story — the wife, the husband, or the landlord?
i caught my husband having sex with my mother, and when i confronted them, my mother looked me in the eyes and said,
“ask your husband how long i’ve been protecting you.”
i slapped my husband and started screaming at my mother.
my husband didn’t defend himself. he just sat on the bed with his head down.
i asked my mother what she meant.
she said, “before you married him, i found out something about him that would have destroyed your life. i kept quiet because you were already pregnant with his child.”
i turned to my husband.
“what is she talking about?”
he started crying.
then my mother said, “tell her who you were married to before you met her.”
my husband looked at me and whispered:
“your mother was my first wife’s best friend.”
i was confused. “what does that have to do with me?”
my mother finally revealed the truth.
“your husband didn’t meet you by accident. he knew who you were before he ever spoke to you.”
would you want to know the real reason he married you, or would you leave without hearing another word?
HOW PEOPLE ASKED FOR SEX IN 2000 VS 2026 😭💀
2000
Guy: Baby, there’s something I’ve been wanting to tell you.
Girl: What is it, darling?
Guy: I don’t know how to say it. 😭
Girl: Just tell me. You know you can trust me.
Guy: Can I come and see you tomorrow evening?
Girl: Okay, baby. ❤️
Two weeks later…
Guy: Baby, can I sleep over tonight?
Girl: 😂😂 Let me think about it first.
Guy: Okay, I’ll call you tomorrow.
2026 💀
Guy: Baby, come over tonight.
Girl: For what? 👀
Guy: Netflix and chill. 😂
Girl: You don’t even have Netflix.
Guy: Who said we’re watching anything? 😭💀
Girl: You’re actually crazy.
Guy: So are you coming or should I sleep alone tonight? 😂
Girl: Send your address.
Guy: I’ve sent it, baby. ❤️
2000: Three weeks of courage just to ask if he could sleep over.
2026: One message, one excuse about Netflix, and everybody knows exactly what the plan is. 😭💀
Basically my (32f) boyfriend (35m) has a hard time getting off during sex. We can go for hours and he just can't get there. I also have a hard time, but when I get used to a new partner it becomes much easier.
Our sex life started out great. We originally were just casual, then went on our first official date at the beginning of the year. I'm telling you, best sex of my life. Then spring hit, and just a sudden drop happened. I brushed it off as just a little rust for a month or so because he was stressed out. We then became officially in a relationship. Since then it's been 2-3 weeks every time. This current one will be 4 weeks this weekend...
I brought this up in the summer and the conversation did not go well. I asked if it's usual for him to lose libido in relationships and he just kind of shut down. He is not great with communication and later that night he said he just felt like it meant he was a disappointment and not enough. I never want him to feel that way, expressed that was never my intention. And moved on without any clear answers.
Fast forward to Sunday. We had been running around all day and he was tired, which is understandable, but I asked what might be going on to cause the laxk of sex in general. He didnt shut down quite like last time, which was certainly an improvement. I asked if him taking so long to get off was any reason and he said that was part of it. I know work wears him down, so im sure that and stress dont help.
The only other thing is, before when I said "I guess I just have a higher sex drive than you," he responded with "I don't know if that's true." Now that one hurt. I figured stress and such dropped his sex drive and I was trying to be understanding. But to hear that, it doesn't make me feel great. He still masterbates (which i have no problem with, of course) but he just wont initiate anything with me, and he's constantly acting tired so I feel bad initiating anything with him.
Back to conversation Sunday. I tell him I need a more active sex life, and that if there is anything going on I need to know so we can work on things together. No real answers, then I text him I am on my way over to return his truck that I borrowed, and when I get there he still has a fresh boner from masterbating. Idk if Im being unreasonable, but that really hurt my feelings. I tried to play it off like it was fine but in my head I was so confused how I JUST mentioned the night before that im unhappy with our sex life and the following day he finds out im on my way over then decides to rub one out before I get there. This has made me feel so hurt. I'm feeling so unattractive, self conscious unwanted, etc. I even started glp1s over the summer to see if maybe trimming some weight would entice him more. I know that isnt a healthy way of thinking, but I admit that I did it.
Nothing else in this relationship is an issue. He's still touchy, cuddles, we have playful banter etc. He kisses me every morning before he leaves for work when im over. He constantly offers his help with projects for my business. We enjoy being around eachother. I know the lack of sex isnt due to lack of emotions. He has shown me in many other ways that he cares. We're even planning a cute Christmas vacation together. But the sex life, or lack of one, im afraid is going to make me resentful.
Tldr; My partner will masterbate plenty but not initiate sex with me
What the heck do I do? Am I being unreasonable?
i had sex with my ex-boyfriend one last time before getting married, and three days later, my fiancé told me something that made me realise my ex had planned everything. 😭💔
i know what i did was wrong.
my wedding was only two weeks away, but my ex suddenly showed up at my workplace, crying and begging me to give him one last chance.
i refused at first.
but that night, i made the biggest mistake of my life.
i promised myself i would never tell anyone.
three days later, my fiancé came home, sat beside me, and asked a question i wasn’t prepared for.
“did you see Daniel last weekend?”
my heart stopped.
i asked him how he knew.
he brought out his phone and showed me a message from Daniel.
it read:
“i did what you asked me to do. now keep your promise.”
i looked at my fiancé, confused and terrified.
then he said:
“i paid your ex to come back into your life because i needed to know whether you would betray me before i married you.”
i started crying and begged him to explain.
but he shook his head.
“the money wasn’t the test. what you did with him was.”
then he picked up his car keys and walked out.
be honest: if your partner secretly tested your loyalty and you failed, would you forgive them for setting the trap?
my husband has been having sex with my younger sister, and the worst part is that i was the one who begged him to let her move into our house when she had nowhere else to go.
for six months, i defended my husband every time my sister complained that he made her uncomfortable.
i thought she was trying to create problems in my marriage.
last night, i woke up around 2 a.m. and noticed my husband wasn’t beside me.
i went downstairs to get water, and i heard my sister crying in the guest room.
when i opened the door, my husband was standing there.
i asked what he was doing in her room at that time.
he said she was having a panic attack and he was trying to calm her down.
i wanted to believe him.
until my sister grabbed my hand and whispered:
“please don’t leave me alone with him again.”
i turned to my husband, but he suddenly became angry and told me to stop listening to her lies.
then my sister unlocked her phone and showed me messages he had been sending her for months.
i was crying when i asked her why she never told me.
her answer destroyed me.
“i tried to tell you the first week i moved in, but you said i was jealous of your marriage.”
i turned to my husband and told him to leave.
but before he walked out, he looked at my sister and said:
“so you’re finally going to tell her why you came to this house in the first place?”
my sister went completely silent.
then she looked at me and said:
“there’s something about your marriage you need to know, and i’ve been too scared to tell you.”
if you were me, would you hear your sister out first, or would you never forgive her for keeping this secret for so long?
i slept with my boyfriend’s father, and yesterday my boyfriend proposed to me in front of his entire family 😭💔
i thought the biggest problem in my life was finding a way to hide what happened between me and his father.
but when my boyfriend knelt down and brought out the ring, his father suddenly stood up and said, “before she accepts that ring, there’s something my son deserves to know.”
the whole room went silent.
my boyfriend laughed nervously and asked his father what he was talking about.
his father looked straight at me.
i started shaking because i knew he was about to expose me.
then my boyfriend said something i will never forget:
“dad, you don’t have to explain anything. she already told me.”
i couldn’t move.
my boyfriend turned to me and said, “the only reason i proposed today is because i wanted to see if you would finally tell the truth.”
then he faced his father and asked:
“did you tell her what you did to my mother?”
his father’s smile disappeared.
suddenly, i realised i wasn’t the only person in that room hiding a secret.
would you accept the ring just to find out what the father and son are hiding, or walk away from the entire family?
i caught my husband having sex with another woman in our bedroom, but when i asked him who she was, the woman started laughing and said, “you mean he hasn’t told you yet?” 💔
i was shaking with anger.
my husband quickly told her to shut up, but she refused to leave.
instead, she picked up her clothes, looked me straight in the eyes, and said:
“ask your husband why he has been sending money to a woman every month for the past seven years.”
i turned to him.
he couldn’t look at me.
i asked him who the woman was and why he had been hiding this from me.
after several minutes of silence, he finally said:
“i didn’t cheat on you because i stopped loving you. i did it because i thought you would never forgive me if you knew the truth.”
i told him to stop talking in riddles.
then he brought out his phone and showed me a picture of a little girl.
the girl looked exactly like our daughter.
i asked him who she was.
he looked at me with tears in his eyes and said:
“she is your daughter’s twin sister. the one you were told died at birth.”
i couldn’t breathe.
then the woman said something that made me realise my husband wasn’t the only person who had lied to me.
“your own mother is the reason we kept her existence a secret.”
😭💔 if you were in my position, would you confront your mother first or throw your husband out of the house?