“a healthy relationship shouldn’t be hard.” i actually think healthy relationships can be hard. when two people become deeply connected, they eventually run into each other’s differences, insecurities, old wounds, habits, and fears. difficulty doesn’t automatically mean the relationship is unhealthy. sometimes it simply means two imperfect people are trying to build something real together. there will be seasons that demand patience, difficult conversations, compromise, and a lot of sabr. that doesn’t mean the love is wrong. sometimes it means you’re both being asked to grow.