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@mardeemoves

she/her/that nigga. no famz who no famz you. founder: @wematterng

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Joined August 2012
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just launched my substack: deesperspective.substack.com i'll be writing essays on identity, healing, and rewriting survival scripts. first drop this friday. visual excerpts + messy drafts on IG → @dees.perspective
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France called in sick
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I'm sorry but this is hilarioussss
Tagrawlaa is Culer 💙❤️ (🇵🇸🔻) (@francedownfall) profile pictureTagrawlaa is Culer 💙❤️ (🇵🇸🔻)
@francedownfallJul 14
Thirst trapping in Meccah ? I’ve seen it all
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NOOOO FRIKKIN WAY
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Omo Spain came with the intensity
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Being back on this app feels so strange
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I can't believe I'll have a one year old by the end of this month. What I especially can't believe is that I still find myself, in the middle of the night, checking to make sure she's breathing 🫣😭 I think my mother might have been right when she said it doesn't really ever stop
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you know you're still seeking external validation when: - you set a boundary and immediately start explaining why it's reasonable - you make a decision and scan the room to see who noticed - you advocate for yourself and then soften it with "but I understand your perspective too"
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- you enforce a standard and feel guilty when it's inconvenient for someone else the approval reflex doesn't look like begging. it looks like over-explanation. like making your clarity digestible. like converting your authority into something that can be negotiated.
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if you’re the “emotionally intelligent” one in your relationships, this might be for you 🧵
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you explain clearly. you regulate first. you zoom out. you track patterns. you soften tension. while you think that makes the relationship safer, it might just be making it uneven.
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and people wonder why i'm afraid of new friends??? folks are SCARY
elsa (@callmeMaharani) profile pictureelsa@callmeMaharaniFeb 6
my best friend got a job at a big firm and i told her i was happy for her but i spent the whole night crying because i’m still unemployed. i’m a terrible friend. i want her to succeed, just not more than me. there, i said it.
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these AI caricatures have me thinking everybody done lost their goddamn minds
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once you realise the exchange rate of power, you stop handing it out so freely
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anyone who requires permission to live will always resent those who don't
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i can't believe this isn't the last friday of january 🫠
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being labelled “difficult” is usually the fee for exiting control systems
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the internet is annoyinggggg
SHANE REACTION (@imshanereaction) profile pictureSHANE REACTION@imshanereactionJan 19
Victoria Beckham at Brooklyn's wedding
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history doesn’t remember well behaved women because well behaved women don’t change systems. they just keep them running
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had a dance battle with my boys last night and man my soul needed that
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being back to work after 9 months off is NOT the one
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5.52pm and there's no word of boarding. ffs
dee 🌸 (@mardeemoves) profile picturedee 🌸@mardeemoves26 Dec 2025
my 2pm flight has somehow become 6pm. man sometimes this country really pisses me offffffff
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