Been married for over 15 yrs. I teach men how to have a succesful marriage
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Men, lead your marriage like a man.
Don't allow small things take down your marriage.
Here is a guide that will guide you on how to have a succesful and string marriage.
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If you're a man and you are having sex once a month or less, you have a fifty percent higher risk of cardiovascular disease.
This is not the typical relationship advice. This is about how intimacy and your body can be connected. Close connection can influence your stress response, nervous system, mood, sleep, and circulation.
During intimate moments, your brain can release chemicals linked with relaxation, bonding, and positive feelings. For some people, that may help reduce stress and support overall well-being.
But here's the important part. Researchers have found associations between relationship and intimate health and cardiovascular health, but that does not prove that having less intimacy directly causes heart disease.
Your sleep, stress levels, exercise, blood pressure, diet, and many other factors matter too. So if intimacy has disappeared from an otherwise healthy relationship, don't simply ignore it. Talk openly, understand what's changed, and take care of your physical and emotional health. Your heart deserves attention too.
When a man finds the right woman, he becomes the man he always wanted to be.
When a woman finds the right man, she becomes safe enough to be completely herself.
One grows through love, the other rests in love and together they become a place called home.
The married man retweeted
Men, if you cannot quit masturbation, then it is better to masturbate at night than in the morning.
Reason number one is….
The married man retweeted
If her pulling back makes you chase harder, you just taught her how to control you.
She gives you less attention and you reward her with more, and you wonder why her attraction keeps getting worse?
Remember these three unbreakable rules.
1.Don't send a second invitation while the first one is still unanswered.
2.Don't cancel your plans because she suddenly became available,
3. Don't give her a speech about your standards while you abandon every single one of them.
If you need to beg her to participate in your life, stop calling it chemistry. You're doing a group project by yourself. Let her go.
I forgave my wife for cheating six years ago, but there’s something I still cannot get out of my head.
The image of her being intimate with another man.
Six years have passed, and those images are still as vivid as they were when I first discovered the affair.
They come without warning. Sometimes, we’re simply having breakfast, talking about ordinary things, and suddenly, the images invade my mind.
I look at her, and all I can see is her with him. My mind even recreates moments I never witnessed. And just like that, I’m back to the pain I thought I had already survived.
I genuinely believe she has changed. I want our marriage to work. We have four children, and I want to keep our family together.
But I’m exhausted. Really exhausted. I’m exhausted from fighting these thoughts, even when we’re intimate. Or, if I’m being honest, especially when we’re intimate. It still feels like I’m being cheated on all over again.
How do I stop these images from haunting me? And when they suddenly appear, how do I pull myself out of them?
Please help.
---From my Dm, drop some advice for this guy.
Your woman tells you;
“I want to I leave you.”
Weak men:
❌ “Baby, please don’t leave me. I can’t live without you.”
❌ “Please, I’ll change. I promise I’ll never make you angry again.”
❌ “If you leave me, I’ll never love another woman again.”
Strong men ↓↓↓
“Okay. When are you leaving?”
He stays calm. He protects the children. He starts moving like a man who already has a plan.
Why? Because the moment you beg a woman who wants to leave, you hand her the power.
Begging tells her she can threaten the marriage and you will fold. She learns that your fear is bigger than your standards.
Even if she stays, she no longer respects you. The home becomes a place where she can leave any time and you will chase her.
A man who begs for a woman who has already checked out is not saving the marriage.
He is teaching her that he has no options and no spine.
Let her go if she has decided.
Then fix your life so the next woman never has to test whether you will beg.
The married man retweeted
Women don’t care about a man’s character as long as he’s handsome or rich.
Let’s be real all the nice things you do, all the loyalty, all the respect… it barely matters if you’re broke and average-looking.
Women aren’t actively cruel, they just don’t notice men who can’t provide excitement, status, or attraction.
They only pay attention when a man has money, power, or looks that turn heads.
Being “good” alone won’t get you anywhere. You could be the kindest, most honest, most loyal guy in the world and she might still ghost you if you don’t have the status or looks to spark desire.
On the flip side, when you level up hit the gym, grow your money, sharpen your style suddenly all the “good qualities” you had are worth noticing.
Moral: Stop begging women to see your value. Build your value first. Become a man who’s attractive, strong, and in control. Then character becomes the icing on the cake, not the only thing you rely on.
You wanna lose your man? It's simple:
-Talk down to him.
-Criticize him.
-Constantly remind him of everything he's doing wrong.
-Make him feel insignificant in your day to day.
-Remind him of all the mistakes he keeps making and has made in the past, even if it was years ago.
-Don't ever appreciate him.
-Never tell him that you're proud of him.
-Don't ever tell him that you love him.
-Don't respect him and blow up in his face every once in a while.
If you wanna lose your man, do that. If you don't wanna lose your man, don't do any of that. Fix your bad behaviors, fix your bad habits, and learn to respect your man.
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In your 20’s you’ll find a lonely girl with so much past trauma and you will be convinced that you are the right guy to fix her, it’s very important you run away as fast as you can.
The True Definition of a Life Partner
If you want to get married or seriously want to live your whole life with someone, then first you have to decide that you don't want to see anyone else except them.
Only they should be visible to you, whether you are together, in the same city, or out of the country. Even if you had a fight, even if you are upset and not talking, still only their thoughts should come to your mind.
Forget about thinking of someone else, your eyes shouldn't even wander to anyone else. This is the definition of a life partner.
Just getting married, having kids, marrying someone because your family told you to, or marrying anyone just to fulfill a responsibility and living casually - that is not the meaning of marriage.
You should be completely lost in each other, there should be no thought other than each other. Whenever you get free from work, the first thing you should want to do is contact your partner in any way and talk to them. You simply should not be able to live without them, living itself should feel impossible. To live for each other, this love for one another - this is the definition of a life partner.
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For a MARRIAGE to really work, you gotta understand this: You and your partner are TWO different people, with two different pasts, trying to build ONE future.
You didn't grow up the same, you won't always think the same, and that's okay. What matters is HOW you handle it. Communicate without turning everything into an argument. Listen even when you're frustrated. Stop keeping score and start choosing growth.
Because every disagreement shouldn't create distance. It should build understanding.
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Single men have a superpower that nobody likes to talk about.
If you have no wife and no kids, no one's waiting at the door for you, you can go broke and no one will pressure you. You can go away for weeks and nobody will ask you where you were. You can burn everything in your life down, rebrand tomorrow, move cities, sleep in your car.
But when you add a wife, add kids, and add mouths, now your spine disappears. You don't chase the moon anymore. You guard your mortgage. Single men can go for broke because broke only wounds their own ego. Family men hesitate because being broke detonates your home like a grenade.
So if you're still single and you're timid, you're holding the rarest leverage a man will ever get in his life, and you're using it as toilet paper. Some men would die for your freedom, and you treated your prime like a rental car.
For a MARRIAGE to really work, you gotta understand this: You and your partner are TWO different people, with two different pasts, trying to build ONE future.
You didn't grow up the same, you won't always think the same, and that's okay. What matters is HOW you handle it. Communicate without turning everything into an argument. Listen even when you're frustrated. Stop keeping score and start choosing growth.
Because every disagreement shouldn't create distance. It should build understanding.
The married man retweeted
Normalize leaving a woman alone so she can go back to her type and the man she can afford.
Normalize not chasing women who don’t choose you.
Normalize walking away with your dignity when she shows you she’s not invested.
Normalize protecting your peace over protecting her feelings.
People ask the question,
“Should we stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the kids?”
The answer is,
“Don’t stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the kids … instead fight for a GREAT marriage for the sake of your kids.”
The married man retweeted
Women don't leave men for cheating, they leave men they stopped respecting.
Think about every woman who took a man back after he cheated. What did he have? Options. Other women wanted him, and somehow that made her want him more.
But you don't need to cheat to have that effect. You just need her to know that other women find you valuable, that you're not desperate, that she's a choice, not a lifeline.
Therefore, the real work is never about being faithful or unfaithful. It's about being a man worth being faithful to. Because a woman who respects you will forgive almost anything, and a woman who lost respect for you will leave for nothing.
Fact you need to know:
If you wait until the ages of 25 to 29 to get married, your risk of divorce goes down 14%. It drops down to 10% if you wait until 30-34 to get married. "Let it be late, but let it be good."
You’re not late, you’re smart!
The married man retweeted
Women hate love.
Women want love, then they get love, then they hate it. The more you love, the more they hate it.
The more you lack love for them, the more they'll chase the love from you.
This is something that they cannot help. It operates in their subconscious. This is a hardwired mechanism that women have in order for them to arrive at the strongest mate.
Understand this and you will not struggle with women at all.