Instant action and maximum risk is the shortest route to a (purpose-)full life.| Sharing my thoughts on life and tech.

Joined December 2011
Note ✍️ to self: Always take a STAND 🚹
"Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. Lukewarm acceptance is much more bewildering than outright rejection." - Martin Luther King Jr.'s Letter from Birmingham Jail (1963)
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It's so ironical that the the most important person you need to understand in the entire universe is YOU... And the need God that to understand YOU.
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"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why." -Mark Twain There's a third day:the day you realize that each new day is a day less for you to fulfill your purpose.
This is a very interesting conversation. Time is the most valuable resource in the universe, and you need to spend quality time with your family. The thing is, your family also needs you to be functional and earn enough money to take care of them. It is a huge dilemma. I did the same doubling-of-rates thing to get my time back, and immediately after I got some breathing space last year, an extended-family health emergency got me scrambling back into gigs that took my time again. I'm spending time on projects I thought I would never do again. I now do strategy work for companies and people smaller than those I worked with before. One thing I have learned is to make sure I carry my family along. My son was helping me book meetings before he went to school. When my daughter was 8 years old, she used to look at my Google Calendar, see when I didn't have meetings, and book playtime with me. I now understand why some very successful people turn their businesses into family businesses: it is the only way they can share time with their family. A mentor shared his food service business with his children and their spouses, and they all run it together. My wife’s aunt has her two kids in there with her 6 days a week, running her trading business. Maybe if I start this fish thing that I have been postponing, I will make it a family thing. Consulting and selling my time has taken a toll on everything else. I don't even have enough time to turn it into products or paid content that I don't have to deliver by myself. 2027 will be very different, with higher consulting rates. Time gets more valuable as you grow older. I listened to something that stopped me cold this week. It was something like - people think every day is a day added to their life but each day is another day subtracted from what is left of our lives. By that logic, each minute you spend gets more expensive as you have fewer left.
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The greatest thing God created or extended to humanity is the human spirit.Its inherent transcendental capacity is unfathomable.
One day, after a Google event in San Francisco, a friend invited me to a mixer with investors and founders, and I went with him. It was an opportunity to mix with people informally but I wasn't prepared for the level of "informality" that followed. A black guy who was ex-military and had a few exits under his belt walked up to us and introduced himself. I was happy to see "a brother" doing well for himself, and he was happy to meet an African there. Dude just casually popped a green pill in his mouth and offered me one. I was taken aback and asked him what it was. He looked at me strangely and said; "Are you not ready to party?" I told him that I don't drink and I don't do drugs. He walked away from me in disgust. I started looking for the guy who brought me there, and when I found him, he was already as high as a kite. I couldn't make sense of what he was saying. They wanted us to move the party elsewhere and ordered some Uber Blacks. One of the servers working at the place, who was quietly observing us, told me not to go with them. I called a regular Uber and went to my hotel. I still remember this incident, and a couple of years later, I met the dude from the party. He was sober and never recalled that we had met. I don't know if it was embarrassment or if he clearly didn't recall. I left it, but never forgot. Chatting with @babajide today just brought back that memory. These guys people all admire in tech have an undercurrent fueled by substance abuse. It is what makes them able to think and do things that normal humans cannot. I remember another friend telling me how he would go with the CEO of one of the bigger social media companies on a silent meditation retreat for two weeks at a remote place. Not talking and isolating yourself for two weeks is how he comes up with his brilliant ideas. None of those guys were normal. I speak to African founders these days who are simply trying to survive and are pitching for small amounts, and I shake my head. The people they are competing with have transcended reality. Our tether to our realities is a blessing and a curse. It prevents many from thinking creatively to build products that have not existed before. The way I remove myself from all that is not drugs, but travel and new experiences. I also do a version of the silent retreat on my trips. I talk to nobody for a week and think. One experience I had in Napa will never leave me. I wrote some of the best articles I have ever written while isolated there.
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Btw trying to explain the reality of God's existence to an atheist is akin to explaining sex to a virgin 😂
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Amazing 😍
Real life, baby
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Memoria retweeted
Yes. The tweet Abike Dabiri-Erewa reacted to with multiple laughing emojis is this one from akerele_s on 1 Sep 2025: "My sister you are doing well allow those monkeys to continue to make unnecessary noises they are born to be ungrateful people. Those animals tagging you they are children of gorilla history told us about them. Kudos to you madam abikedabiri Voiceofigbos see what my sister has done omo ale jatijati" Link: xitter.cf/akerele_s/status/19625…
Replying to @abikedabiri
My sister you are doing well allow those monkeys to continue to make unnecessary noises they are born to be ungrateful people. Those animals tagging you they are children of gorilla history told us about them. Kudos to you madam @abikedabiri @Voiceofigbos see what my sister has done omo ale jatijati
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Not costly, don't put fear on anyone. Cloud Architect Expert here. My estimate puts it at about $90 - $120 per month if you wanna have 2 app servers that can act as load balancers + 1 DB server. Put both behind Cloudflare which will handle Caching, etc. You need an 8-core CPU with 24GB RAM each which is about $30/month on Contabo. For a 3rd server, you can host your DB (Postgres/Redis) at another $30 per month. If you don't want to go that route, get a Ryzen dedicated VPS with 12 cores for $120/month, it will handle this seamlessly, but it isn't as 'efficient' as the architecturally optimized 3-VPS route, which guarantees redundancy. It's not that costly. It's when you begin to have millions of concurrent users that you have a challenge with server costs. Meanwhile, if no one wants to say it: if money was the sole reason for accepting that funding from GB and co, then it was a wrong move. They had enough runway to manage server and associated operational costs. Now, they are a bit handicapped in terms of product direction, going forward.
Do you know how much servers cost for 100k live users?
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Because people are getting the wrong picture, here’s some context. There is documented evidence, mainly on large early rounds reducing experimentation and enabling premature scaling, rather than on any funding being harmful. A 2025 working paper by Harsh Ketkar (UT Austin) and Maria Roche (Harvard Business School), “Too Much, Too Soon? Early Funding, Technological Unconventionality, and Innovation Capabilities,” analyzes nearly 800,000 firm-month observations on about 11,800 software-oriented startups founded and funded between 2010 and 2019 (PitchBook plus BuiltWith technology-stack data). After first funding, average technological unconventionality (unusual combinations in the product stack) fell by more than 20 percent. Larger first rounds were linked to steeper declines. Longer delays before the first round attenuated the drop: firms that waited continued to reconfigure stacks more, discarded technologies more often, and adopted fewer paid or advertising tools. Higher average unconventionality was associated with a greater chance of successful exit. The authors argue that early resource constraints force more deliberate experimentation, while abundant early capital reduces the need to search and can lock in less distinctive technology combinations. Harvard Business School coverage and a related HBR discussion of the work emphasize the same timing effect, using Color Labs (about $41 million raised before product launch in 2011, then shut down after rapid scaling and weak iteration) as an illustration. Older survey evidence points the same direction through failure rates. The Startup Genome project (roughly 3,200 high-growth technology startups, reported in 2011) found that about 70 percent scaled prematurely, hiring, spending, or expanding markets ahead of validated traction. In that dataset, no prematurely scaled startup reached 100,000 users, and 93 percent never exceeded $100,000 in monthly revenue; startups that scaled in step with traction grew roughly 20 times faster. Premature scaling is often financed by early capital that removes the pressure to test assumptions before building team and product. Practitioner observations align with the data. Investor Fred Wilson has stated that the amount raised in seed and Series A rounds is inversely correlated with success in the data he reviews. Paul Graham has also argued that larger raises lead to more spending (especially on people), which makes early startups more rigid and less able to change direction. These findings are not universal though. Other work finds that venture capital can support higher-quality or more novel patents under some conditions (for example, experienced investors in hot markets funding riskier experiments, or early corporate venture capital raising patent counts while lowering IPO odds). Delays in funding can also hurt science-heavy startups that need capital to commercialize. The clearest documented pattern is that oversized or very early funding tends to reduce technological experimentation and raise the odds of scaling before product-market fit, which is a common path to failure. In this case, my brain tells me the funding is too early as it tends to redirect a founders mind from the curiousity that brings stability and PMF to other things. Mitchell Elegbe, co-founder and CEO of Interswitch, has said it most directly. At the 2024 Doing Business in Nigeria conference he argued that many Nigerian startups fail because they treat successive raises as the plan. “A lot of companies have failed because they were dependent on raising money. They hoped to raise one fund after another. That works very well in Silicon Valley. But we are in the Tropical Savanah; you only have one chance. Don’t waste it.” He added that a round raised two years earlier might be the last for five years, so how it is used matters. In earlier remarks he has tied the same point to Interswitch’s own start: the company raised only about $500,000 against a $1 million target and had to turn a profit in year one because there was no realistic second check. His related advice is to prove someone will pay at a profitable price before scaling, rather than buy market share with free use and hope to monetize later. Prof Ndubuisi Ekekwe has made a similar caution about blitzscaling. In a 2021 Tekedia note he wrote that he teaches the concept but tells Nigerian founders not to use it until the economy is more predictable. His reason is the long path to profitability and volatility: if timing slips by months during a capital-fueled ramp, the company runs out of cash. He has called blitzscaling inside that environment “an illusion.” Others allude to it through practice. Odunayo Eweniyi of PiggyVest has described building the earlier product and the savings platform with little marketing spend and no external capital until 2018, after users had already saved substantial amounts. This is the most compelling for me. Commentators in the local ecosystem (including coverage of post-funding collapses such as 54gene after roughly $45 million, and pieces on over-reliance on fundraising) repeatedly describe the same pattern: large early checks used for headcount, offices, and expansion before unit economics or product-market fit hold, followed by a funding cliff when the next round does not arrive. The Nigerian version is therefore less “money reduces technological unconventionality” (the Harvard/UT finding) and more “in a market where follow-on capital is scarce and costly, early money that is spent on scale before the model works is often fatal.” Elegbe’s “one chance” formulation is the clearest documented statement of that view. Hope this helps.
Funding, when it’s too quick like this, kills innovation. This raise came too early, but what do children know?
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🚨NEW EXPERIMENT 🚨 Playground is an experimental gaming platform that lets you create your own games with zero coding experience. If you can think it, you can play it. Go to labs.google/playground to learn more! Available to users 18+ in the US.
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Remembering one of the greatest technovisionary of this generation. Logged out 💔 October 5th ,2011.
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Great product thinking here.Said same thing about #1: xitter.cf/mrpurpose0/status/2107…
Great interview! A few thoughts: 1. She should please chill out on the valuation talk and keep building. The most important thing at this stage is to sustain momentum and keep growth steady. Revenue can dry up at any time if things are not managed well. Data is the ultimate play. The realistic city mapping thing is a serious angle. 2. Four cofounders may sometimes make decision-making difficult. It is always better to have an odd number than an even one. 3. Agents providing feedback from live Twitter commentary is interesting. Is she using Claude Ultracode? I would love for people like @otoide_a, @Ace_KYD, @FourEyedWiz, and others with deep gaming experience to have a deep technical interview with her and her team to understand their stack and methodology. She can even teach others and learn from others in the process. That is how the tech community gets involved. 4. Security and compliance may become a major headache as potentially shady partnerships creep in. That crypto guy did it openly; others will be more subtle in their scamming within the game. This is the biggest risk at the moment, and that is where they would need a lot of help. 5. They need serious moderation and vetting of partnerships and adverts to prevent brand or reputational damage. I am already seeing prostitution adverts there, and there are complaints of sexual harassment.
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If you know the lady who built the Lagoslife Please tell her to Dm me or tag her, someone wants to buy her idea for $100,000 paid full High end Investor (Referral gets $5k)
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There is ONE organ in the human body that almost never gets CANCER. Which one is it? A) Liver B) Lung C) Heart D) Kidney WHY is cancer so rare in this organ?
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