I truly believe that if men married the “whore” they actually wanted to marry, they would be happier and more willing to get married. The problem is they allow society, pressure, and social norms to tell them to go for the “good church girl” archetype, and they end up in sexless, dry marriages. But in reality, they should’ve married the “whore.” Even if she isn’t actually a whore, that (exotic girl) That’s why, even after they lose her, they’re still stalking her online and fantasizing about her even while they’re married with children.