Although I met my partner in person but my hot take is if you are looking for a relationship & are serious about finding someone, ignoring the place where the majority of people are finding people is kicking yourself in the foot
dating apps have become so terrible that you are more likely to be successful meeting someone in person and im so serious 😭😭 or literally any other app like insta . letterboxd comments . hell maybe even google reviews but just not those damned dating apps