my ketuvian sister whos just AS dark as me but has the mula privilege of looking ashy: why are you yellow?
i’m aware there are more people with me on this but in my head it makes so much more sense to change positions, leave situations and spaces that are not necessarily problematic but simply not enough for me. i would not negotiate my needs not because i don’t want a rejection -
no im only attracted to attractive people. i’ve never crushed on someone that doesn’t already have a bunch of hoes crushing on them. i’m not even venusian btw
like nah ashlesha suns are not narcissists, aries moons are not all doomed in romantic relationships, debilitated moons are not all depressed bums some are just melancholics by nature but successful and stable, taurus are not all lazy or gluttonous, some are super picky + thin
an age gap of over 15 years is pushing it and there is no longer any relatability between partners, the dynamic is super distorted, there’s power play, people take on “trauma based” roles, it is a sort of transaction based case.
hot take: older men + younger women (with a significant age gap) is something social media tries to remove shame from but in reality it’s completely wrong and im still glad people irl judge it.
a 50 year old man is not at the level of a 20 something year old woman and never will be. if you’re fifty or in your 40s and a man and you’re pursuing a woman in her 20s you’re a fucking predator and people in your age category avoid you for good.
If I didn’t honor my mars in ashwini I would’ve been much more likable with lack of confidence but instead I value my sense of autonomy and I actually enjoy being hard to digest and causing discomfort in people who obviously want to use me.








