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My feminine side is only for people who are sweet to me.
Disrespectful people get my dad's female version.
We can't heal someone we love, and they can't heal us. But in a relationship, we're given a unique opportunity to participate in each other's healing that looks nothing like fixing, rescuing, co-dependency or self-abandonment.
It looks like compassion.
If all I wanted was an average life, I would've stopped a long time ago.
The problem is, I know how big the game I want to play really is.
I looked in your cup to see if you needed more, you looked in mine to see if I had more than you.
We aren't the same.
The true luxury is waking up without a war in your head, with your nervous system at peace and your body healthy.
Every unanswered question changes you.
Not because it stays unanswered. But because of who you become while carrying it.
He loved your spark, then he made you smaller to keep you. He admired you in public and dimmed you at home. He wanted the version of you everyone desired, then resented you for being desired. That's the cage, and it doesn't have bars you can see.
today is the first day of November, hoping that November gives us soft mornings, good news, answered prayers, and the kind of happiness that stays. 🥹🤍
Your repeated choices reveal more about your current operating system than your biggest ambitions do. Study what you practise, not only what you promise.
One thing I admire about myself is that I am never affected by peer pressure; I always do things at my own pace in my own lane.