mushy stephanie

As an empty nester, I’ll tell you this… Your children eventually build lives that don’t revolve around you. They grow up. They build careers. They fall in love. They make their own friends, routines, traditions, and families. And that’s exactly what you raised them to do. But while you’re helping them build a life of their own, make sure you’ve built one that doesn’t revolve around them. Keep your friendships. Take care of your relationship. Have hobbies that belong to you. Learn something you’ve always wanted to learn. Travel when you can. Set goals that have nothing to do with your children. Because one day, the house may become quieter. They may call less often. They may spend holidays somewhere else. They may need your advice less than they used to. That doesn’t mean you’re no longer important. It means you succeeded in raising someone who can stand on their own. Parenthood is a chapter of your life—not the entire book. Love your children deeply. Be there for them. But don’t put your entire identity, happiness, and purpose inside their lives. They need a life of their own. And so do you. Share your opinion ..............................