I write about Relationships, Frame and Social Dynamics.

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Most men lose women for one reason. They lose themselves first. Frame is not confidence or money. Frame is sovereignty. I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff. substack.com/@ojframe?r=1ok…
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You can list your non-negotiables for a woman. Then you meet a woman that you are extremely attracted to. Suddenly, your standards drop. Why? You don’t have the willingness to endure the consequences of enforcing them.
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There's zero reason for the modern man to have misplaced priorities in this social media age. He is fortunate enough to live in an era where, on practically every corner of social media, he encounters men and examples that reinforce one lesson: there is nothing more rewarding, nothing more deserving of his priorities, than making it in life. He will never miss the silent instruction: focus on your dreams, not love. He will hear it in Don Jazzy's Instagram comment section, in videos like this one, where Pretty Mike publicly commands a woman to turn her yansh and she gladly obliges; on the social media pages of the rich and famous, where women - the very vessels from which he seeks love - express the primacy of survival in male-female dynamics and display little interest in love itself. Then the modern man, if he is not foolish, will begin to understand that his first, second, and third priorities should be to pursue his dreams and succeed in life. Not to fall in love with the female human species. Because, for as long as the embodiment of the love he seeks is a female human, and for as long as this species as existing primarily in forms that are poor, greedy, solipsistic, and chaotic, he will see no path to succeeding in the adventure of loving one. And so, his best option is to prioritise his dreams. If the divine is with him and fortune finds him, women will come to him. And when they do, they will be obedient in their interactions with him. Just like the woman in this video is obedient to the command of a pretty Mike, a made man.
Pretty Mike: Let me see your bumbum Woman: Anything for you Truly, a man with money is a man of options
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I really wanted this girl. But she didn’t want the same thing I didn’t pretend she did. I didn’t pursue her regardless. I acknowledged that I wanted her, understood what that desire did to me and I responded to it. This is Agency.
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Real ones know this is not how to cold approach.
She no feel am at all 😂
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OJ retweeted
Taller than her Richer than her Smarter than her Stronger than her Offer more value than her More competent than her Better problem solver than her An all round better human being than her Yet you pedastalise her, simp for her and apologise for peace to reign. Fascinating
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RT @jollygoodlyfe: bc he thinks he is a simp basically that sentence programmed him to be a simps even if he was a chad a second ago this…
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“I don’t want her to think I am a simp” is exactly what a simp would say.
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I.e they could be interpreted differently if not applied appropriately towards sexual intent.
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Learn to screen women. That way, you know the women that are worth the effort.
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you can learn a lot about women by study french women 1940-1945
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Rizz Lines are the fastest way to communicate sexual and romantic intent as a stranger. The problem with rizz lines is that they are shortcuts. Context-blind shortcuts.
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The thing about pick up lines that work is the fact they will get over used to the point where they stop working.
Just too easy to get, as a guy pay attention to this sharp update.
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The first two is “feel nothing”. The last two is “feel everything and react to nothing”.
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what’s the different
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Most dudes are behavioural and emotional detached instead of being outcome and identity detached.
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Instead of asking: "How do I detach from women so they cannot control me?" Ask: "Why has my relationship with women acquired so much power over my internal state and the direction of my life?" This changes your entire trajectory.
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“Fuck me if I am wrong…” is a great pick up line to use. Y’all should try it.
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One of my homegirls lost her virginity back in March. She got into a relationship in May. I asked her, “why she has refused sex with her man”. Her reply: “I know he needs it but sex is for my husband” Women only withhold sex from guys they are not attracted to.
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Someone should answer this question. “If no one follows you, how are you a leader?”
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If no one follows you how you are a leader
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getting over her means getting over your weaknesses that she showed you by getting her back now you cheated the system she took you back like you are so you don’t have to change learned that the hard way
Dude asks me, “How do I get over her?” The most common advice will be, “Find someone else”. My best advice ? “Figure out why you are still attached to her. When you do, don’t kill the attachment. Just stop feeding it”
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I find 80% of Nigerian Women completely undateable. Nigerian dudes are trying. Cause wtf.
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