Honestly, if you can unironically say that a VN has changed your life and you as a person then that means you've never had an actually strong foundation as a person to begin with and you just let some Japanese otaku dictate it for you. That might sound harsh but people are corny.
acting like this game is similar to fallout 4 cuz you have zero creativity and desire to do anything but peek around a wall mindlessly for 30 seconds like a drone