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Things I implemented from the book "The gap and the Gain" that helped me improve my trading.🧵 @DrBenjaminHardy
1. Capitalizing on Losses: Reframing the Raw Material of Growth
Perception shapes progress. Losses—missed trades, blown P&L, or flawed setups—aren’t just setbacks; they’re data. Hardy’s point is that devaluing experiences (e.g., “I’m a failure for missing that move”) stalls learning, while reframing them as capital (e.g., “That miss taught me to watch volume spikes”) accelerates it. Your shift to seeing rules and setups emerge from past mistakes is a textbook example of moving from the "gap" (what you lack) to the "gain" (what you’ve built).
In trading terms, this is like treating every red day as a post-mortem goldmine. For instance, a blown stop-loss might reveal a pattern—like entering too early on a breakout—that you can codify into a rule: “Wait for the retest.” Over time, this builds a feedback loop where losses stop being emotional sinkholes and become the raw material for tighter hypotheses. Your long-term mentality shift mirrors what elite traders do: they don’t mourn the tuition; they cash it in.
2. Stopping the Self-Beatdown: Breaking the Tilt-FOMO Cycle
You’re absolutely right—tilt and FOMO are trading’s twin demons, and self-punishment is their fuel. Beating yourself up after breaking a rule (e.g., chasing a trade) doesn’t fix the mistake; it fries your emotional bandwidth, setting off a shame spiral. Guilt and tilt aren’t just in the moment—they linger, clouding your next setup even if you’re “not trading.” Hardy’s insight here is about self-compassion as a growth hack: if you’re stuck in the gap of who you should be, you can’t focus on the gains you’re making.
Channeling that energy into a detailed post-trade journal—what went wrong, why, and how to prevent it—is a brilliant pivot. It’s productive, it externalizes the emotion, and it turns a high-energy “I screwed up” rant into a concrete fix. For example: “Entered without confirmation, felt rushed—next time, I’ll wait for the 5-minute candle close.” This aligns with the point about growth being non-linear—like the market, it zigs and zags, but the trend matters more than the noise. Kindness isn’t weakness; it’s a shield against tilt’s compounding losses.
3. Setting up my environment: Decision Fatigue and the 20-Second Edge
His take on decision fatigue and the 20-second rule is a game-changer for trading execution. Trading is a mental marathon—every “Should I enter? Exit? Adjust?” chips away at your willpower. By prepping your environment so decisions are front-loaded, you’re not just reducing fatigue; you’re separating planning from execution, which is a pro-level move.
Amateurs analyze mid-trade and hesitate; winners execute what’s already baked.
Your daily process—pre-made plans, alerts for price levels, reminders for rules or breaks—is the 20-second rule in action. If your chart’s ready, your entry’s plotted, and your phone’s on Do Not Disturb, you’ve shaved seconds (and stress) off the “start” button. Conversely, adding friction—like keeping Twitter off during market hours—cuts FOMO noise.
Technology amplifies this: a TradingView alert for “Price hits 50 EMA” or a sticky note reminder keeps your brain on rails. Hesitation dies when the plan’s already loaded.
This ties your environment setup to capitalizing on losses (past misses fuel hypotheses) and sidesteps self-punishment by focusing on execution over emotional churn. It’s about stacking the deck so you’re trading the system, not your impulses.
4. Trade Like Your Future Pro Self Already Exists
A long-term mindset in trading, tied to my "future self" strategies from The Gap and The Gain, is about building for the trader I’m becoming—steady, sharp, and profitable—not just scrapping for today’s P&L. It’s zooming out: future me doesn’t freak over a trade’s every tick, like checking P&L nonstop. I’m in it for the week’s edge, the month’s growth, the year’s payoff. Losses, slip-ups, bad days? Tuition for the big picture, not disasters.
It shapes how I roll. I’m crafting systems—journal, prep—like I’m already running a million-dollar account, because future me doesn’t flail, she executes. I measure gains looking back (e.g., “Am I sticking to rules better than last month?”), not agonizing over some unattainable “guru” gap.
Short-term traders hunt dopamine; I stack habits. Skipping that instant reward, as I’ve learned, rewires me to see trades as steps to wealth, not ego boosts.
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Every time I do this simple meditation, I perform much better, following my plan and instincts.
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Live look at today’s price action 😂
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Wiser. retweeted
Beliefs don't only live in your head. They show up in what your body does under pressure. You can say you trust your plan, understand probabilities and accept risk, and all of that can be true when you're thinking about it.
But when the trade is on and something starts moving, what actually happens? Your breathing changes, your body tightens, your attention narrows, and then the behavior follows. Cutting early, hesitating, forcing something that wasn't there... those little things aren't random. They're a pattern your system has practiced enough times that it runs on its own.
Beliefs get wired through repetition. So if a lot of your experiences around money, trading or risk have been tied to stress or urgency, that's what shows up when it matters.
What changes execution is new experiences stacking up. Holding when you normally wouldn't, waiting when nothing is there, letting a trade play out without interfering. At first it feels uncomfortable. Then it feels familiar. And eventually it just feels like how you trade.
People only listen to what agrees with them, then turn it into good vs. evil. That’s not conviction; it’s ego. It's what keeps you poor.
I hate to scare anyone, but let's see what happens in the next few days. If anything changes, great, but right now things look far from bullish. Technically, after a dump like this, I would expect a lot of chop, but my indicators suggest more continuity. $SPY
Markets are risk-off on higher timeframes; I haven't seen it since Feb 2025-March2025; I'd be careful about buying dips long term. $spy
Today looks like a trend day for $SPY .We'll see what the next days bring. I think I was a bit early on my puts, but I felt that could be the case and kept some bullets for my original thesis that the real move is between Friday and Monday.
Still risk-off; started a small OTM $SPY put position at HOD for Friday. I prefer shorter-term and will renew if I am early.
Wiser. retweeted
And so today we have a huge rally in the indexes and the four most active stocks are down. Been following the stock market for over 60 years... and it never ceases to amaze me.
Markets are risk-off on higher timeframes; I haven't seen it since Feb 2025-March2025; I'd be careful about buying dips long term. $spy
Today, ES_f made a 50% retracement on the daily chart, but as you can see, it didn't finish as an outside candle. That is because it was fighting timeframe continuity on both the weekly and Monthly Charts. $spy