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Joined March 2020
I really believe deadbeatism is a symptom of the contempt men have for women. It’s never an accident, has always been in their plans for you. The intention? To ensure your life gets layers of difficulty, strife, disappointment & hurt added to it
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You’ve said it best!! Choosing to be unmarried & childfree and being vocal about it & even giving valid criticism on these.. all that is messing with the status & hierarchy of being married/having children. Those who did these for social status aren’t gonna be pleased vele 😤
Replying to @writeforlovetoo
Society relies on strict hierarchies, in the past it turned childfree individuals into pariahs and people were comfortable when upholding traditional expectations of having children. Nowadays no choice is better than the other, it’s just a different path, & I think some hate that
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Fur Mom retweeted
On 15 October 1993, exactly a week after this order to murder children (8 October 1993), De Klerk was announced as the joint winner of the Nobel Peace Prize.
De Kock alleges that former President F.W. de Klerk gave the order for five children to be murdered in Mthatha. He further says De Klerk’s Nobel Peace Prize should be revoked. #KayaNews #TRC TT
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Sigue siendo el mejor vídeo sobre adicción que se ha creado
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What a disaster
BREAKING: about 833 residents in Bronkhorstspruit have been affected with gastrointestinal illness. Most listed hospital in nearby area. Tally previously 408 affected. 348 (Age 0-4) 40% affected Last 24hrs - 27 residents affected Three patients admitted to hospital. Tshwane Mayor Nasiphi Moya says investigations underway when asked who will be fired? Bronkhorstspruit Water Treatment Works manager placed on suspension following preliminary investigations ON WATER TANKERS: DP Paul Mashatile: "we concerned about private suppliers because we don't know where they getting water from." Story developing @eNCA #BronkhorstspruitWaterCrises
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This is why I think it's a massive mistake for us to think of the rise in the popularity of the manosphere with boys, as a men's issue. Those boys are turning around and inflicting all that toxicity out on the girls in their lives.
jesus christ. i will say it again and again and again that the level of paranoia, control, and abuse we are seeing in teen relationships is on the rise. it is NOT normal. the stories we hear from our little sisters and nieces were not the norm in teen dating like 10/15 years ago
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They started with your face, moved on to your waist, and now they're after your knees. Meanwhile, endometriosis and PCOS research still can't get funded. Capitalism at its finest.
أول مره أدري أن في إجراءات خاصة تحسن من شكل الركبة الحزين 🫣
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“No kids” is a flex to someone who is intentionally childfree. “Mom”/“Dad” is a flex to someone who wants to be a parent. Anything that makes anyone happy can be a flex to them hey 🤷🏾‍♀️ it doesn’t need to upset anyone else
“No Kids” isn’t a flex btw.
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The way being childfree has been seen as an insult since forever??! It’s been a reason for being judged, cross questioned, shunned, sidelined. Now its like this shift where people now own & celebrate this life choice is making those who preferred when it was seen as a shame upset
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Saw this on TT a few hours ago. Had to share it because this is ever so accurate..
This barely having any views is bothering me because it’s a scenario more women need to be aware of. It reminds me of that quote that’s like, “If you treat a man well, he won’t think you’re amazing. He’ll think he is.”
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Ladies using e-hailing services in SA: I need us to always be ready to cancel a trip no matter how late or in a rush we are. If a driver is being difficult or inappropriate even before the ride starts, cancel. If the car reg is not the same on app, cancel. If they ask +
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If they ask you to end the trip so that you can pay them cash, please refuse. I know our instinct might be to empathise with whatever reason they give, but pls understand that you’re putting yourself at risk by doing that. Don’t negotiate anything when it comes to your safety 🙏🏾
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Sometimes even parenthood is pursued from a place of outsourcing a sense of accomplishment… another societal expectation & proof of adulthood & worthiness of respect… because in most African communities if you are unmarried or don’t have kids, there’s tables you cant sit on
I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
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When you are unmarried & childless there is an undeniable pressure to show off other accomplishments. Like your career has to be exceptional in order to justify “choosing it over” a relationship
I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
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Anathi Maguga, an innocent, hardworking businesswoman from Gqeberha who specialised in baking cakes, has reportedly been found dead in a forest after she went missing on Thursday evening. According to reports, Anathi was with her cousin when she received a phone call at around 6 PM. She reportedly left shortly afterwards and was not seen again. Police later found her vehicle in NU5, Motherwell.
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And we’re surprised that some doctors want endometriosis reclassified as cancer because of how it behaves. But sure, let’s keep studying the most attractive female body traits instead of addressing this severely understudied illness. I’ll just keep sitting here in pain, I guess.
ENDOMETRIOSIS HAS NOW BEEN FOUND IN THE LUNGS, BRAIN, HEART AND OTHER ORGANS IN THE FEMALE BODY-ENDO IS FAR MORE THAN JUST A "BAD PERIOD" DISEASE; IT IS COMPLEX, SYSTEMIC WARFARE WAGED AGAINST THE ENTIRE BODY.
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“So much” like what?
I think it’s important to have a few male friends as a woman. You learn so much lol.
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Has The Office always been on Netflix? I’m so happy about this discovery!
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the reason men can open jars easier is becos they don't moisturize.
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Also alikho ikhaya elizovuka ngoNovember bafazi. Buy that phone, that wig or that sneaker😭
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