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Muslim. Chartered Accountant.

Doncaster, England
Joined December 2019
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I have something to say sha but new dawn, new day.
The clown who did the “dance of shame” obviously saw my tweet. 🤡🤡🤡 That tweet went far beyond what I imagined. The werey captioned me on her post on TikTok 😂😂😂😂 “Single ladies, don’t be an understanding wife oh. When you do 50/50 with your partner, the rest 50% he will carry it outside to chop other girls.”……. This is the thought process of the average Nigerian woman abroad.
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Nigerian women have so monetised relationships that everybody knows the game now. Dancing on the internet to announce that you don’t contribute financially to your own household is such a loser thing to do in 2026.
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Make I go order.
After 13years of waiting, here we go #GTA6
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The clown wanted to use them for PR. E pain am.
Why is Peter Obi clowning up everywhere because he was restricted from seeing the girls.
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Yall project too much
Your uncles and aunties will not tell you.. But they are coming back to Nigeria to retire because they have failed to integrate into the western world. They live abroad but has refused to adapt to life there. They need to be constantly worshiped, but no one abroad send their papa. So they will take their $3,430 social security check and use to buy "good afternoon ma" "how are you doing today sir" "I just came to see how you are doing today ma"...
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People who: I)coined the “Nigerian men will disgrace you” & other uncharitable attacks & 2) joined others to castigate Nigerian men are now angry that Nigerian men are staying away from the diatribe they’re now receiving by foreigners. Nne fight your battles!
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I’m not pro-japa or anti-japa, or anything of that sort. I 100% believe in going where you’re treated best. And because I see things from that perspective, I struggle to understand why anyone would completely uproot themselves from a system where they enjoy the benefits of living in a relatively sane and functional society, only to move back permanently to a place like Nigeria. Especially when I consider some of the reasons people give. Nostalgia, missing home, wanting to reconnect with their roots, or even wanting to return to change the country. To me, most of these are things you can satisfy by simply visiting for a few weeks. And on the subject of returning to change the country, I think we need to start encouraging people to think beyond the conventional idea that you have to physically relocate to Nigeria to make a difference. Whenever this conversation comes up, someone always has a business idea or a problem they believe they’re uniquely positioned to solve by moving back. But I often wonder: What makes you think that, out of the millions of people already living in Nigeria, many of whom may never have the opportunity to leave, you’re somehow the person best suited to solve a problem that people on the ground have been struggling with for decades? I’m not saying you can’t make a difference. I’m saying we need to think more broadly about what making a difference actually looks like. For example, I have no intention of moving back to Nigeria permanently. I’ll visit, of course. But almost every day, I’m thinking about businesses, systems, and solutions that could improve the lives of millions of Nigerians without requiring me to be physically present in the country. If I build a business from abroad that eventually employs 1000 Nigerians, provides them with stable incomes, and contributes to the economy, haven’t I made a meaningful contribution to the country? Potentially even more than someone who moves back simply because they feel they should, only to start figuring everything out from scratch? There’s also something people seem to underestimate about living in a functional society. The peace of mind that comes from having your basic needs taken care of gives you the mental space to think, plan, create, and strategize. I don’t have to spend a significant portion of my day worrying about electricity, bad roads, or the basic infrastructure required to live a decent life. That freedom allows me to focus my energy on building things that could eventually benefit people back home. And even if every business idea I pursue fails, I still have the option of getting a regular job, learning a trade, or pursuing another occupation and maintaining a decent standard of living in a society where the basic necessities of life largely work. That’s an advantage I don’t take lightly. So why would I voluntarily give up that stability, move back permanently, and suddenly have to dedicate time, money, and mental energy to solving everyday problems that I no longer have to deal with? Why put myself in a position where I risk becoming another person struggling with the very problems I originally hoped to help solve? I understand that people have different priorities, and for some, moving back might genuinely be the right decision. But personally, I don’t believe that loving Nigeria, wanting to contribute to its development, or even building businesses that serve Nigerians requires me to live there permanently. You can contribute to a country’s progress without having to personally endure every dysfunction within it.
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I think about this all the time but my thoughts vacillate btw both extremes. I HATE how much inefficiencies i have to deal with on a day to day but I also like and want to live in Nigeria. This country must work and I’ve made peace with fighting for it to
Moving back to Nigeria was a mistake.
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This is also my mentality! Before I left Nigeria 🇳🇬 for Germany 🇩🇪 in 2020, my previous relationship had ended, and it was quite painful. I had about seven months before my departure, and I told myself that I could only imagine marrying someone who shared my culture and background. So, I prayed to God to bring someone into my life with whom I could build something meaningful before leaving Nigeria. I didn’t want to get to Germany and start scouting for someone whose cultural background I knew little or nothing about. Looking back today, I can only thank God for giving me the best! ❤️ I honestly can’t imagine my life with anyone else. 🥹❤️
Marriage is not something I can do with a non Nigerian. Marriage is tooooooooo eternal for me to do it with someone I will spend 10 years adapting to or will give up some parts of my culture for The gist has to be steady for marriage to be interesting for me. If I lack things to gist with you I will clock out of the entire relationship And what gists will I gist with someone that spent their first 25 years in Oregon? When I can be gisting random with a Nigerian babe and we will end seeing that we know a mutual from secondary school, from different states and we met during Milo soccer competition We can have random gists about Styl Plus and Paul Play. We can talk about Nigerian politics from way back. We can talk about so many things that both of us can relate to. Gisting is too important for me in relationships. It's too important. And way back gists are Soul striking More importantly I don't have to adjust my taste buds. Black Tax also is a community responsibility for me, many cultures frown at it and I cannot stop that.
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The way men see dressing and the way we women see it are different things ngl😂😭
This is why I can’t marry outside my nationality. Imagine speaking English early in the morning 😭🤣
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like ive always said, men need to complain more.
If more men shared their side of the story, a lot of women would be seen very differently.
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there’s absolutely no incentive in publicly humiliating someone you once loved, regardless of how badly things ended. some stories are better left untold, not because the truth is inconvenient, but because love deserves dignity even after it dies.
If more men shared their side of the story, a lot of women would be seen very differently.
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I respectfully disagree. Not every immigrant is a care worker, and not every immigrant earns £25,000 a year. Some of us work in highly skilled professions, earn considerably more and contribute in different ways to the UK economy. Immigration is not one profession, i.e care work
The UK should stop equating immigrants’ pay with the value and quality of their work. Just because an immigrant care worker earns £25,000 a year does not mean that their salary reflects their true worth or the value of their contribution to society. These individuals, along with many others, perform essential work whose value goes far beyond what money alone can measure. A person’s salary should never be mistaken for the value of their contribution to society.
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Meat steakhouse in Sheffield don know my name. Best place to eat different kind of meat.
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Yup and it says a lot
Lots of people say this, yet she’s not making numbers proportionate to how good her movies are. But people keep complaining about quality of movies going viral. What is that about?
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I’ll keep this here, been looking for it since yesterday!
I go back to this Seun Kuti video from time to time
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Y’all project too much
I am leaving the UK for good… It’s a difficult country, too expensive and mentally exhausting, there’s money, but you’ll suffer. I’m going back to Nigeria where I know I’ll be happy with my family around me…❤️ —person wey don cry find COS tire..
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They said no one is pay for all o
I used to have a Nigerian neighbour years ago here in the UK, and he had a wife and FIVE daughters. He paid for EVERYTHING, as he would work 12 (sometimes more) hour shifts everyday. And his wife? USELESS. She did fuck all, you would go to their house and it would be dirty as fuck. When she actually did cook for once in a blue moon, she would never open the windows, so the place stank. There would be bits of rice throughout the place. I wish I was joking, but I am not. She was fat and entitled as fuck, and that is when I knew that Nigerian men go through some bullshit. I told my old neighbour privately, he needs to start spending money on himself and take care of himself. He told me his Father and Grandfather tried telling him the same things too back home. Otherwise, he would work himself to death at a young age, all because his Nigerian woman is useless. Man to Man: Do not settle for these women. Feminism has either corrupted their minds, or brought out their true selves. Prioritise yourselves brothers.
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I use to be one sef.
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I personally know 5.
There is NO MAN in this UK with a WORKING WIFE that foots ALL THE BILLS. We all know what we are doing on this app sha.
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