unfortunately a pattern i notice with a lot of yaoi fandoms online is that they will follow a strictly heteronormative pattern (top is big and masculine bottom is small and petite) OR they will make the bottom ftm just to sexualize it and not care about the character being trans

being an incest abuse victim and seeing people say incest is queer is so frustrating in ways i can't explain. most, if not ALL incest is cocsa abuse or an older family member taking advantage of a younger one. if u genuinely think it's a valid form of relationship you should die