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Trained therapist & The London Sex Coach. Identifying the hidden patterns we all face before they upend our lives. Let’s say the quiet part out loud.

London and Manchester, England
Joined June 2015
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There is, of course, something inherently contradictory about making private writing public. Publication changes the relationship between the writer, her words & those who encounter them. Something to read, interpret & judge. drcamillewaring.com/blog/dia…
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Your anxiety is not an enemy. It is protection running on an old threat assessment. You don't fire the guard. You show him the war is over and update his orders. Book a Free 15-Minute Call through the link on our profile. #ClearEyesSoundMind #MensMentalHealth
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Can you keep work intimacy separate from real feelings, or does it always bleed over? @IAmMattVC is on Get Schooled tonight, and we get into it. Comment PODCAST and I'll send you the episode link. #GetSchooled #Podcast #NonMonogamy #sexwork #Latina
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Matt Valentine-Chase retweeted
Adamski at The Haçienda, 1989. Pure voltage. Our mate Adamski lighting up The Haçienda back in ’89 raw techno, acid house energy, that unmistakable Manchester pulse ripping through the room. 🎥 @adamski Madchester full swagger
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Matt Valentine-Chase retweeted
A bill claiming to protect gay people is being opposed by a gay rights charity. Wondering why? Hear the experiences. Read the arguments. Judge for yourself. lgballiance.org.uk/conversio… #ItsOkayToBeGay
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Liability Orders ask for a certified extract from the Memorandum of Entry under Rule 66B of the Magistrates Court Rules 2024 Amendment. Make it clear the request is being made under Rule 66B and not Section 45 of the Data Protection Act.
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So b4 the fear mongering about flu, plague etc starts remember vit D needs magnesium to be activated and fat to be absorbed. It contains the broadest spectrum of antimicrobials. Above 50nmol/l it cuts your risk of dementia by 40% so get ur levels higher.
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You don’t know who she is. You don’t know if she owns the house. You don’t know if she’s been here 5 years or 5 weeks. You don’t know her immigration status, her employment history, or whether she has ever claimed a single benefit in her life. You saw a woman in a headscarf walking a child and decided that was sufficient evidence to brand her a benefit scrounger living in a free £400k house. This is just racial pattern-matching with zero facts attached. If your entire case against a stranger rests on “I don’t like how she looks, therefore she must be on benefits,” you don’t have an argument. You have a prejudice looking for a photo. I hope you get sued one day!
Imagine working 5–10 years to save enough for a mortgage, then these people get a brand-new house after being here for weeks.
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For insulin to work, it must bind to a cell receptor and trigger an enzyme called tyrosine kinase. This enzyme is entirely magnesium-dependent. Without magnesium, the signal fails, resulting in insulin resistance. 85% of the population do not have enough magnesium.
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I’m never quite sure what to say when people tell me not to write my book. Although I suppose the first question should be: which one? I’ve got a couple on the go. You can always buy the rights to it if you wish. Or get an injunction to stop publication.
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Unsurprisingly 1991 got 99.9% of all the votes this week.. whether you're old enough to have been there or not, it's a very special year of music. Listen again links below: Rayo: hellorayo.co.uk/kisstory/sho… Mixcloud: mixcloud.com/andidurrant/the…
1991 vs 2006 I'm not going to pretend it's a fair fight this week 😂. 2006 has some really good stuff, but there's not many years can compete with 1991. Anyone actually going for the later year? 7pm KISSTORY if you're around this evening.
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CASTING CALL! We are looking for the following: UK based female: 25-35, tall, athletic. Acting experience required. UK based male: 40-60. Acting experience required. UK based male: any age considered, some acting experience would be beneficial x2
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The diary at the centre of this research was written by me as an adolescent girl. It documented my experiences of a sexual relationship with a teacher and later became part of the machinery through which those experiences drcamillewaring.com/blog/con…
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A reminder that when a chronically ill creator has a health problem, it’s not just content they fall behind on. It’s laundry, dishes, grocery shopping, cleaning the house, family/friend affairs. Life does not stop because we do. Catching up is exhausting, please give us grace. ♥️
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🎄 SNAP Christmas Party 2026 🎄 📍 London 📅 Monday 7th December ⏰ 7pm until late This is an industry-only event. DM us for information on how to get tickets, or email [email protected] with any questions.
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The DWP has completed an exercise involving existing PIP awards and a minimum three-year recommended review period. But that does NOT mean everybody suddenly has a guaranteed three-year PIP award. And it doesn't mean PIP reviews have been abolished. With so much uncertainty surrounding PIP at the moment, it's really important that administrative changes don't turn into frightening, or falsely reassuring, social-media rumours. If you've received something unexpected, check exactly what your own notification says before panicking. #PIP #PersonalIndependencePayment #PIPReview #DWP #DisabilityBenefits
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Starting November 1, OnlyFans can freeze your earnings if they think something you did could hurt OnlyFans' reputation. That's one of two new suspension triggers in the updated terms. This is part 2 of my TOS breakdown, and it's all about your account and your money. The new suspension triggers... Section 14.b lists when OF can suspend your account and hold your earnings without notice while they review. Two new reasons were added. The first is any action OF thinks "has caused or is reasonably likely to cause" a loss to OnlyFans or its users, or harm to the reputation of OnlyFans or any user. The second is not promptly giving OF information they ask for. That second one is going to be hard for a lot of us. Basically if OF emails you asking for documents, answer fast. Idk about you but I'm allergic to checking my emails so this is about to get annoying. Also disputes now need to be in writing... If OF suspends you, deletes content or forfeits earnings, you still have six months to dispute it. The new terms add that the dispute has to be "in writing" (14.d). Keep copies of everything you send. One notice promise is gone. The 2024 terms said that when OF suspends or deletes content or accounts, "we will try to notify you." That line was removed. OF still promises a statement of reasons after a review decision (14.c). Now the money... Payouts that need a currency conversion now "include currency conversion fees to cover processing costs and exchange rates" (10.e). The 2024 version only warned that your own bank might charge you. If you're paid outside USD, compare your next few payouts after November 1. OF can now add "any Tax, fee or other amount" to a fan's payment without further notice to comply with the law or payment network rules (9.f). That means fans could see a higher total at checkout than our listed price. OF can now send your earnings to a third party entitled to them by law or court order (14.e). It can also check that your bank details match your ID verification (10.a). One change that helps us... If a fan's card declines, OF can now retry it multiple times before the renewal fails (9.i). That should mean fewer subscriptions lost to one declined payment. Obviously this is my read of the new terms, and (again!) I'm not a lawyer. Read them yourself and tell me if you see it differently. Part three will be tomorrow and it's the last one about what to do before you click accept, plus the change that works in your favor.
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