A man is a grown adult who understands that unprotected sex can result in pregnancy. Abortion is not a loophole for men to evade responsibility. It is a woman’s choice because it is her body, her health and her life that are directly affected by that decision. If she chooses not to have an abortion, her decision doesn’t absolve him of responsibility. You cannot participate in creating a life, insist that she terminate the pregnancy and then use her decision not to as justification for abandoning your responsibilities. If you are certain you don’t want a child, take responsibility for your reproductive choices before a pregnancy happens. You don’t get to dictate what a woman does with her body and then punish her for choosing differently.