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STRICTLY FOR MEN ONLY!! Men, learn this. Anything you want from a woman and you overly show interest in or appear desperate for... she'll use it against you. She'll commercialize it. What you show desperation for becomes a product she will sell back to you. This is from a woman's perspective. - Show her you are desperate for her online presence, she'll tell you to pay for her data. - Show her you desperately wanna hang on call with her, she'll bill you for her attention. - Show her you desperately need her company, she'll ask you, "What would you buy for me if I walk with you or drive with you out." - Show her you desperately need sex, she'll bill you. You'll pay heavily. Remember; there's a guy in the room that she would do all these for free over and over. That guy is not richer than you. That guy is not finer than you. That guy is just not desperate. She does it for him for free because he did not beg for it. She does it for him for free because he can live without it. Desperation makes you pay for what another man gets for free. That is the painful truth. Niccolò Machiavelli said, "Men are so simple and so much inclined to obey immediate needs that a deceiver will never lack victims for his deceptions." When you show desperation, you show your immediate need. And immediate need is an invitation to be deceived. She does not need to be wicked, she only needs to see your need, and the market will do the rest. Control your need, and you control the market. Always learn to control your cravings around women, no matter how you want a thing from a woman, don't show desperation. Control is not pretending you don't want. Control is wanting, but not shaking because you want. You can want her presence, you can want her call, you can want her company, you can want sex, but you must want it like a man, not like a beggar. A beggar shows his hunger, a man hides his hunger and eats when food is served. If you show hunger, you will be fed with conditions. Jean-Paul Sartre said, "Man is condemned to be free." You are condemned to be free, which means you are free to walk away. Desperation is you forgetting your freedom. You act like you cannot live without her call, without her presence, without her body. But you can. You lived before her, you will live after her. Remember your freedom, and desperation will die. You can be assertive but not desperate, being absolutely dull or relenting might not land you what you want.. be a bit assertive. That's different from being desperate. Baltasar Gracián said, "Never show your wounds." Your desperation is your wound. When you show it, you give her a place to press. When you hide it, you heal it in private. A man who shows his wounds to a woman will be pitied, not loved. And pity is always billed. If it doesn't come forth, walk away, do not pursue or chase it, you'll be used. If she does not want to talk, walk away. If she does not want to come out, walk away. If she wants you to pay for what should be natural, walk away. Walking away is not losing, walking away is protecting your value. Chasing is what turns you from a man to a customer. And a customer always pays. A man walks away with his pocket and his dignity intact. Alan Watts said, "Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth." Trying to chase a woman to define your worth is the same. You cannot chase your worth into existence. You find it by walking away from what does not value you. Walk away, and you will find yourself again. Know this and know peace. Class dismissed.