Chivalry doesn’t spring from the ether, it is the fruit of a well nurtured societal tree. Feminists torched the orchard decades ago. You’re asking why aren’t men giving women preferential treatment in a world where women have claimed to be equal. It’s a question that answers itself. You can either have equality or preferential treatment, but not both. Your fellow ladies have chosen equality, so now you are stuck with their choice. It’s funny how women are suddenly feminine when they need something from men! You got this! Also: Are you a feminist? Do you believe in equality? Do you believe in the evil patriarchy? Are you submissive? Are you not a loudmouth boisterous obnoxious scolding nag? What's your body count? Do you pick the bear?