I am particularly upset on behalf of this lady. The uncle asked if she knows him, which means all of them arent part of their life while the deceased was alive. He also asked if he knows his father, which means Toluwani doesn't have any relationship with the father. He abandoned the boy after the death of his mother. The uncle dare to challenge the wife that he heard that Toluwani built a house for her as a gift for her birthday.... and he emphasized that yet see the way his father is. That lady needs help and all the support she can get. I know families like these... they're gold diggers and they'll make her life extremely miserable. From the way the deceased uncle spoke, they're targeting his wealth. I hope she gets the protection needed. These are the kind of people that makes life horrible for women. They abandoned his mother and now they're after this young lady. Iyawo, don't allow anyone manipulate you or deceive you to agree to anything that will endanger you and your children. Toba possible, if you can, leave their environment and be at peace. I see a society that disrespects women at every slightest opportunity provided. Before a man can build a house as a gift for a woman he loves, it means she earns it. Unfortunately, death is revealing alot but men must always make proper planning incase of death, inorder to protect your immediate family. As a young lady, before you marry, ask all the right questions. I love him doesn't protect you from wicked family members. You see their picture together? It means they labor together when he was without a people, name, help. He rose in her arms and her arms kept him safe, he founds comfort in them. Before you say, it is his house, see the picture and make a righteous judgement. Sad story!