My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor, then told me I couldn’t bring my boyfriend because he makes her uncomfortable. For context, my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He’s quiet, doesn’t drink much, and isn’t particularly outgoing. My friend is the complete opposite. They’ve never had an argument. He’s never been rude to her. He just doesn’t participate much when we’re all together. She told me she wanted her wedding to be a fun, energetic environment and worried he’d sit in the corner making things awkward. OI asked if she was serious. She said she didn’t want to spend her wedding worrying about whether everyone was having a good time. I pointed out that she had invited several other couples, including one whose boyfriend regularly starts arguments after drinking. She said that was different because she’d known him longer. I told her I wasn’t comfortable being the only member of the wedding party whose partner was excluded for no real reason. She accused me of choosing a man over our friendship. I said I’d happily attend as a regular guest, but I wasn’t going to be her maid of honor under those conditions. She withdrew the invitation entirely. Now some of our mutual friends say I should’ve just accepted it because it’s her wedding. Maybe they’re right. It’s her day, and she can invite whoever she wants. But I can’t shake the feeling that she wanted me to prove my loyalty by accepting a rule she wouldn’t have applied to anyone else.