If you want to marry a submissive woman who will respect you, Marry a woman from communities we consider "hardship communities" • Maasai • Turkana • Borana • Somali • Giriama • Taita • Pokot • Tugen • Teso Especially if they grew up in their families. They have lived in situations that call for patience and humility. No matter how tough your marriage becomes, they will endure everything. They will remain respectful and submissive. They are good women. I didn't say you marry them from the city. The Gilbey Dragons will stress you for nothing. Get them from their villages. Remember, you are marrying a mother of your children, a woman whom you will live with for the rest of your life. Don't gamble.