See tears in the comments.
What she said isn’t false. If you don’t like them you have lots of other choices with other nationalities so go for them.
Even if you say she don old, she’s still speaking facts.
Please nobody is forcing you to date Nigerian women in the UK.
Everyday you degrade Nigerian women.
You can actually go to the other women that are not Nigerian.
Nobody cares.
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You’re not the one to determine if it’s healthy or not just cos it’s not your typical imagination of how marriage should be.
If she didn’t say all that on the podcast you will use her as an example of a long lasting marriage.
Most marriages aren’t always like you imagine.
One thing I actually picked from the podcast of this lady that went viral is that the marriage does not really appear to be a healthy one. And I am beginning to wonder if they are simply living together like flatmates.
For you to actually come on a podcast and speak with so much confidence and arrogance about your marriage and husband, it speaks volumes.
That's why I keep telling people, don't marry somebody because of beauty or fame. Please, marry somebody you can actually function with as a partner. Marry somebody you can understand, relate with, communicate with and build a life together with.
And that's the only way to truly enjoy your marriage. The only way.
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I need women to stop treating male leadership like it's some natural order. Men aren't born to lead women, and women aren't born to follow them.
The nail polish and the two buttons on the suit.
One has a half dot compared to the one with a full dot and one has three dots while the other has more like two.
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Drift_T retweeted
URGENT PUBLIC APPEAL
I never imagined having to make a post like this, but I desperately need your help.
On October 31, while covering a wedding at Oriental Hotel, Lagos, my bag was stolen from inside the bride's room.
The bag contained my MacBook Pro M1 and
FOUR external hard drives holding approximately FIVE weddings yet to be delivered to my clients.
These are not just files. They are people's once in a lifetime memories, months of hard work and my livelihood.
Thankfully, we have obtained CCTV footage showing the individual entering, taking my bag and leaving the hotel.
I'm offering a N500,000 REWARD for credible information leading to the identification of this individual and recovery of my belongings through the appropriate authorities.
Please you can send a message or call this number for any update 09033892670
Please guys help me repost abeg, this is very important please. 🙏🏾
This is one thing that has always made me draw back from marriage
If you go in, coming out isn’t as easy as people make it look.
That’s why Paul said what he said about being single.
Everyone differs but some people are better off being unmarried and this is the truth
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Lmaoooooooo
Okay
sorry guys, I've been seeing all your DMs, you won't be able to pay for consultations and won't be receiving consultations for now...
Plus, all free consultations are cancelled indefinitely...
I'm sorry I can't help any of you for now. Please, do not make any payment for consultations.
To the thousands of women we have helped in the past, free of charge and paid consultations... I did that free-spirited, but now seeing what some of these women can do and be on the TL, it is important we be extra careful... and for now, no more consultations.
To the innocent women it'll affect, I'll say "I'm sorry"... there are really other great doctors on the TL and great ones in the hospital.
We are only exercising caution.
I'll continue educating yall on the TL.
Thank you for your attention to this matter. God bless you all. Love you all👏👏❤️
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This is why a lot of you are unprofessional in a lot of your fields.
But carry on.
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I don’t care for women who choose to end up with men like that.
She’s reaping the reward of her choice and unfortunately for her, it’s just the beginning.
Let’s not act like she did make her choice.
We are so dishonest on this app.
A Nigerian man in his 30s is married to a girl in her early 20s who, according to him, is currently pursuing her master's degree.
The said man is online but has banned his wife from being on X, Facebook and TikTok. He has instructed her not to be here.
Men are cheering him on for MANNING HIS HOUSE.
Do you understand what it means for a fully grown adult woman, who has gone through the four walls of a university and is currently pursuing her master's degree, to get married to a man who then decides that she is no longer sensible enough to distinguish good from evil?
This same man can be on these platforms, where people like Andrew Tate and others exist, and somehow has the discernment to decide what is good for him to consume, what to learn from and what to ignore.
But the woman he has married? Apparently, she lacks that same ability. She is only book-smart and home-smart. She is suddenly a child who cannot navigate the world without her husband's supervision and authorization.
So, what does he do as the head of the house? He bans her from three or four major social media platforms, presumably because he has appointed himself her guardian angel, responsible for shielding her from the toxicity of the internet.
Do you understand the contradiction?🤷
A man who celebrates his wife's intelligence when it suits him suddenly considers her incapable of exercising independent judgment when it comes to her own exposure to the world. The same world that she was dealing with before meeting him.
And somehow, people do not see the intent behind this action. They do not see how it infantilises a grown, educated woman. They do not see how it strips her of the autonomy to make decisions for herself. They do not see how control is being packaged and celebrated as responsible husbandhood.
Nobody is arguing that social media is harmless. Nobody is saying people should not make decisions about what they consume or the platforms they use. But there is a fundamental difference between a grown woman deciding what is healthy for her and a grown man deciding that his wife is incapable of making that decision for herself. You cannot celebrate a woman's education, intelligence and accomplishments and then expect her to surrender her critical thinking and personal autonomy at the entrance of marriage.
And somehow, in all of this, supposedly educated men do not see the problem in the big year 2026 of our Lord Jesus.
God will judge all of you who pretend not to understand what we are talking about when we discuss these things.
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I don’t understand why men are crying under this post.
Aren’t y’all always championing this behavior amongst yourselves?
Say na a man is always in his prime Oya you don see woman wey still Dey her prime you Dey vex.
Your tears go long o. She is just 48.
I already knew it was in drive.
I don’t know why they are still in operation.
The level of insecurity with riders on that app is too high and they do absolutely nothing about it.
I booked a ride of 3k then I had like a 20 minutes stop to get food and drugs. He said I’d increase the fee I agreed. Then we got to my destination, he requested for 18,000 extra that was a total of 21,800. I refused then he slapped me and snatched my laptop and started threaten-
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