This is crazy
It doesn’t always work like that oh☹️☹️
When I was working in the bank, one of my colleagues was dating a big man who happened to be one of our major customers. At the time, she still had her boyfriend so we all advised her to just chop the man’s money while maintaining her relationship. 😭
Six months into the relationship, she came to work one day and told us the man wanted to leave his wife and marry her we screamed.. We told her not to make that mistake because we were convinced that if he could leave his wife for her, he could also leave her for someone else.
She married him exactly one year into their relationship.
Fast-forward to when she had her first pregnancy, the man sponsored her to USA to have their first baby. she sent us chocolate and whenever I’m eating that chocolate, I feel like ntor 🥵😜was attached to it because imagined she listened to our advice? She for still dey do “next customer please with that red bank”
She has had her second child with the same man, got a brand-new car as a push present and her mum has travelled to the USA about five times now.
Omo, life don pass rich prince falling in love with village girl feem abeg..
Anytime I view her status, I’m always grateful that she followed her mind oh and never listen to us.
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I literally don’t have time to fall in love. See these modafocken bills I have to sort in this goddamn heatwave!
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Imo the best way to move on from heartbreak is respecting their decision, I know it sounds too moral and righteous but I'm being fr. Understanding that they have autonomy, they make decisions for themselves, and they know better than *anyone* what's best for them. They made the decision not to want you in their lives, what else can you do about it. Literally nothing, end of discussion. It doesn't stop the pain but I think one of the things that makes you attached to someone is thinking that you're entitled to their love because of any history or some soulmate delusions. The reality is that they decided they don't want to share their days with you, it's simple but not easy. They thought about it, and they decided they don't want to wake up next to you, fall asleep next to you, share their good news, their dreams, their stress, and their pain with you, they decided you're not the person they want to talk to every day, etc. That's a bunch of decisions, and they made them. What else can you do about it, literally nothing
















