I made my boyfriend cancel an $8,000 trip with his friends, then got mad at him for not being happy about spending the weekend with me. Now he's acting childish and says he needs space. But hear me out. Me: “If you really loved me, you wouldn't be going on this trip.” Him: “Babe, we planned this six months ago.” Me: “So your friends matter more than me?” Him: “That's not what I said.” Me: “Then prove it.” He stared at me for a long time. Him: “You really want me to cancel?” Me: “If you love me, yes.” Him: “Okay. I'll cancel.” I thought he'd hug me. Kiss me. Tell me I was worth it. Instead, he picked up his phone and canceled everything. Flights. Hotel. Rental car. $8,000 gone. Me: “Wow. You really did it.” Him: “You asked me to.” Me: “Why you saying it like that?” Him: “Like what?” Me: “Like I forced you. You don't even look happy.” Him: “Am I supposed to be happy? I was looking forward to this trip.” Me: “So now you're punishing me for wanting to spend time with my man?” Him: “I gave up a trip I'd been planning for six months because you made it a test of my love. What more do you want?” Me: “I want you to WANT to be with me.” Him: “I did want to be with you. But now it feels like nothing I do is enough.” I started crying. Me: “So I'm the bad person for wanting my boyfriend to choose me?” Him: “No. But you didn't ask me to choose you. You gave me an ultimatum, then got mad when I didn't celebrate losing something I wanted.” That pissed me off because... why did he have to say it like that? Me: “Maybe we should just break up then.” .................