
mom, criminal defense atty, housing rights advocate, board game designer, feminist, #chesspunks, polyamorous, 🏳️🌈 pansexual. Also @objkshn on 🦋
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She was warned. She was given an explanation. Nevertheless, #ShePersisted.
The ladies are pissed.
Richard Bailey supports Trump and voted for him three times.
Tell us Todd Gloria’s views so we can vote the opposite way sandiegouniontribune.com/202…
Los Angeles: if you are charged with speeding by automated camera system you are entitled in discovery to learn how the automated system was programmed to prepare for trial. Demand this evidence.
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ALERT: Federal judge finds Maureen Comey was unlawfully fired and must be reinstated with backpay to her position in Justice Dept
Judge: "Comey’s removal was not authorized by any statute; to the contrary, it violated (civil service law)"
Here's the ruling:
nysd.uscourts.gov/sites/defa…
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Three Democratic female candidates for Congress have been hit by cars over the past few days. Peltola, a woman running for Congress in TN, and a woman running for Congress in OH.
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This is so intelligent, I want to cry: The 140 seats won by the student opposition against Serbia's nationalist government party will be taken up not by students, but by academics, professors & public figures from pre-chosen pool of 250 experts, selected by student plenums.
This was murder and the elected DA (Bill Gore, the same guy who gave the shoot order to shoot a women holding a baby at Ruby Ridge, FYI) is as complicit as the billionaire boyfriend.
On July 11, 2011, inside a historic oceanfront mansion in Coronado, California, a 6 year old boy fell from a second floor landing.
His name was Max. His father was a wealthy pharmaceutical executive who owned the mansion.
Max had been in the care of his father's girlfriend, 32 year old Rebecca Zahau, when he fell. She was born in Burma, had built a new life in America, and had been living with Max's father in the mansion.
Max was rushed to the hospital in critical condition.
Two days later, early on the morning of July 13, the father's brother, who was staying in the guesthouse, called 911.
He said he'd found Rebecca hanging from a second floor balcony, and had cut her down.
When deputies arrived, what they found was horrifying.
Rebecca was naked. Her ankles were bound. Her wrists were tied behind her back. She had been gagged.
In the bedroom, a message had been painted in black on a door.
"She saved him can you save her"
Max died a few days later.
Two months after that, the sheriff announced his conclusion. Max's fall was an accident. Rebecca's death was a suicide. Investigators said she was distraught over Max, and that she could have tied herself up before going over the balcony. They even demonstrated how.
Her family was stunned. They said Rebecca would never do that. Her sister said the handwriting on the door didn't look like Rebecca's.
The family sued the man who reported finding her.
In 2018, a civil jury in San Diego agreed with them. It found him responsible for Rebecca's death and awarded more than $5 million.
But the verdict was later wiped out in a settlement. He has always said he's innocent.
The sheriff reviewed the case again and stood by the ruling. The medical examiner refused to change it. The state attorney general declined to reopen it.
No one has ever faced criminal charges.
15 years later, Rebecca Zahau's death is still officially a suicide.
Her family still asks how a woman tied her own hands behind her back.
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“AirBNB was meant to be a free money printer, I shouldn't have to provide a service for the money," he said through the tears
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Btw, the greed of Airbnbs haven’t just ruined the hospitality business by making everyone do their house chores for them while they pocket the cleaning fees.
They’ve also made home rentals unaffordable in cities throughout the world. I was just in Athens, and the local tour guide explained that the younger demographic can no longer afford to live in the same neighborhoods where their families have lived for generations. A gentlemen from Venice said the same thing happened there too, it’s happened everywhere.
The big Airbnb [pseudo] industry deserves its pending implosion. Good riddance 👋🏻
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Everyone needs to know what actually happened in Serbia.
Instead of students just protest against their government, the students organized themselves into a student list and ran in elections against their government—and they have just won.
Dear Serbia, congratulations on your victory; you have just opened a new door in protesting. This is history
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In California, Washington and Colorado, men are surpassing women in taking paid parental leave. A Pew survey found 84% of working parents said paid family or medical leave would be helpful to them, but only half said it was available to them. npr.org/2026/10/25/nx-s1-597…
Replying to @RichardPBailey_
You don’t know of what you speak. How should the 1000s of persons waiting for housing while living in the streets “get help” when average wait for housing is 12 years and only 25 shelter beds available daily? Drug treatment only lasts 3 months and doesn’t end in housing? 1/
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This paper answers why confident idiots run the world.
Cornell University published a psychological paper that explains every terrible boss, every loud influencer, and every broken corporate hierarchy.
It’s called “Unskilled and Unaware of It.”
they tested participants across logic, grammar, and humor to measure the gap between actual performance and self-perception.
And the results are wild.
participants scoring in the bottom 12th percentile consistently believed they were operating in the 62nd percentile.
they were not lying. they were literally incapable of recognizing their own incompetence.
the paper revealed a brutal paradox:
the exact skills required to master a domain are the exact same skills required to accurately evaluate your own competence in that domain.
if you lack the skill, you inherently lack the cognitive capacity to realize you are failing.
this creates a dangerous systemic loop.
the incompetent are blessed with absolute, blinding certainty. their brain protects them from their own ignorance, allowing them to speak first, demand authority, and never second-guess their decisions.
meanwhile, the actual experts suffer the exact inverse.
top performers in the study consistently underestimated their rank. because a task was easy for them, they falsely assumed it was easy for everyone else.
they hesitate. they obsess over nuance. they assume they have nothing unique to add.
we are biologically wired to confuse confidence with competence.
the loudest person in the room gets promoted, gets funded, and gets the microphone, not because they know what they are doing, but because they are physically incapable of seeing what they don't.
the only defense mechanism is building systems that stop rewarding absolute certainty and start demanding proof of work.
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$700/night Airbnb:
- Additional fees and taxes may apply
- Photo ID may be required upon check-in
"no laundry detergent even though they ask us to strip the sheets and start washer at check out"
"hardly any soap/shampoo/conditioner in showers"
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In honor of Airbnb hosts outing themselves as slumlords after the policy changes....
Here's a San Diego Airbnb beachy listing I found that mentioned "starter supplies".
And: "You will need to provide your own beach towels" @ $700+/night.
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2. Stop mistaking autonomy panic for "bad attitude"
An ADHD brain already struggles with outside demands because it runs on internal, interest-based motivation.
When a parent or partner barks an order, the nervous system reads it as a threat before the person even has a chance to consciously choose their reaction.
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In November 1941 the richest man in America drove his twenty-three-year-old daughter to a hospital in Washington without telling her mother, had two surgeons drill holes in her skull and cut into the front of her brain while she sang God Bless America to them, and when the singing stopped she had a mental age of two and the family did not speak her name for twenty years.
Rosemary Kennedy was the third child and the first girl, and she was slow. A nurse at the birth had held Rose Kennedy's legs together for two hours while they waited for the doctor, and the baby had been starved of air. She learned to read and write, but late, and in a family where the boys were being bred for the presidency and the girls for the right marriage, she was the one who could not keep up, the one who had to be coached and watched and given the simpler part in the photograph. She was also, by every account, the prettiest of them, and when the family went to London in 1938 she was presented at court in a white dress and curtsied to the King without a mistake.
Then she was twenty-one, and the trouble started. Moods. Rages. Slipping out of the convent school at night and coming back in the morning and not saying where. The nuns said she might be meeting men. For Joseph Kennedy, who was managing his sons towards the White House and could not have a daughter who might get pregnant or get talked about, that was the end of it. He had read about a new operation. Walter Freeman had promised the newspapers it calmed the agitated, and Joe Kennedy had never in his life been told that a thing he could pay for would not work.
Rosemary was given a mild sedative and kept awake. Freeman and his surgeon, James Watts, opened the skull on both sides and Watts pushed a blade into the frontal lobes and swept, while Freeman asked her to recite the Lord's Prayer and sing, and count backwards, so they would know how far to go. They went until she was incoherent. Then they stopped.
She came out of it unable to walk or speak. Years of therapy got her a few words and a limp. Joe moved her to a private hospital in New York and then to a convent school in Wisconsin, told the family she was teaching the retarded in the Midwest, and never went to see her. Rose, her mother, was not told what had been done until long after, and did not visit for twenty years. The brothers and sisters, including the one who became President, were told she was away. When Joe had his stroke in 1961 and could no longer manage the story, Eunice went to Wisconsin and found a woman of forty-three who did not know her, and came home and started the Special Olympics.
Rosemary lived to eighty-six, in the convent, and died in 2005 with her surviving sisters at the bed. The brother who became President had signed the first federal mental health law in 1963, and the family has said she was the reason.
Freeman kept operating for another twenty-six years. His notes on Rosemary have never been released.
That is what the expert's confidence looks like when it meets a powerful man with an inconvenient child. The science was published. The father was certain. The daughter sang to the surgeon until she could not.
Every institution that has ever decided it knows what is wrong with you and how to tidy it has the same two ingredients in the room, and the person on the table is still the only one who pays.
























