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Joined October 2015
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Spirit Desire retweeted
i am worth the efforts and i am sick of the pattern of abandonment from people. i am deserving of the commitment that is preservation.
Spirit Desire retweeted
the version of the person I loved doesn't exist anymore and I take solace that no one can love the same person I did
Spirit Desire retweeted
I actually applaud women who realized early that being nice to men is shooting yourself in the leg and adjusted accordingly. And I hate that you have to give off a cold bitch demeanor to some of these people in order for them to remain professional at work
N before u ever pick up that phone to call me again remember ILKA WILL ALWAYS BRING UP SOME SHIT CUZ THE SHIT IS UNFINISHED!! U disappearing then reappearing won’t stop nothing U not special no more I have no grace for u call ur mother or ur other ex ill call them for u if u need
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I’m grieving a terrible person but like that wasn’t the person I fell in love with and trusted with my life I swear to fucking god 😭😭😭 DONT REACH OUT AGAIN BRUH LET ME GRIEVE u did ur big one TWICE I want nothing to do with such a moral-less careless selfish lustful person
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I have a great support system I love every Floridian so much I could be like I need help and someone will help they don’t even gotta know me fr I need to GET BACK TO THE EAST COAST now before I die I keep saying that bc I feel like ima die
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I need to sell things to get funs to leave but everyone here don’t fwm cus I’m crazy AND REAL but I NEED TO GET OUT OF HERE
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Spirit Desire retweeted
fuck you. yeah, i said it. fuck you for every time you pretended to care but didn’t. fuck you for wasting my time, my energy, my trust. you played your little games… thinking i wouldn’t notice. acting sweet in public, then being a selfish, lying piece of SHIT behind closed doors
Spirit Desire retweeted
talking in terms of what’s “right” is often a deflection from talking about *what you want.* and we’re often referring to the exact same behavior: for ex I can both Be and Choose a kind, upstanding, communicative partner. the difference is in how I justify it
I've become very radicalized on the idea that most relationship problems come from 1) people not being self-aware enough to identify what they want and 2) consciously choosing/tolerating situations where they aren't getting what they want. The whole "needs" discourse makes me crazy for this reason: another person is not obligated to give you what you "need," but you are obligated to yourself to decide how much it matters to you if they don't
