hay mujeres que han pasado tanto tiempo intentando ser elegidas que nunca se han preguntado qué elegirían ellas si dejaran de organizar su vida alrededor de la mirada masculina.

my life is going extremely well and it's specifically because i do not have any love interests

Imagine your child growing up believing big dreams are NORMAL because they watched you pursue yours!!!!

I sent a nude to my professor instead of my boyfriend and his response was worse than silence The text said: "Won't affect your grade. But you should be more careful with your contacts." That's what my art history professor sent me at 10:47 PM on a Tuesday after I sent him a full frontal nude that was meant for my boyfriend. Full. Frontal. Tits, stomach, the landing strip, one hand pulling my underwear down, taken in my bathroom mirror with the good lighting and the clean counter and I'd been proud of it for about fifteen seconds before I looked at the sent folder and felt my soul leave my body through my feet. His name and my boyfriend's name are one letter apart in my contacts. ONE LETTER. And autocomplete chose chaos. I stared at his response for a long time. "Won't affect your grade." That implied he'd looked at it long enough to recognize me as a student. "But you should be more careful with your contacts." That was a warning. Or advice. Or a door being held exactly half an inch open, not enough to walk through, not enough to ignore. I typed "oh my god I'm so sorry that was meant for someone else" and deleted it. I typed "please delete that" and deleted that too. I typed "I am literally going to drop out" and deleted that.