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pray like a lover, not like a beggar

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"It is a bit embarrassing to have been concerned with the human problem all one's life and find at the end that one has no more to offer by way of advice than 'Try to be a little kinder.' " -Aldous Huxley
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I'm going to Ireland tomorrow to meet the baby and I had a dream last night that I went first to Portugal to freeze my eggs but they decided on the fly to just fertilise and put them back in(??) and I was surprised to hear it when I woke up but I was fat and pregnant already(?) when I boarded the flight from there to Dublin and I decided to just stay there in the countryside in a house next door and live happily ever after and I woke up briefly thinking it was all pretty reasonable even though it's clearly absurd lol
arrived this afternoon on the doorstep of dear friends and found out I'm going to be an auntie this summer 🥲🥹 it's been a nourishing couple of months of visiting people I love 🧡
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Very cool! Babies’ internal clocks may even start developing before birth. Expecting mothers with more regular sleep schedules also tended to have babies who slept more at night. Your sleep schedule during pregnancy may help shape your baby’s body clock.
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The thing about Love is Blind is that it's actually very possible to find your match and fall in love in the pods, but the show is less likely to teach you that than things like: - there are a lot of people who don't know themselves very well or are actively lying to themselves, and so self-describe as the person they wish they were/hope they'll become - many people don't actually know what they want or what's required of them to have it (or what they're genuinely willing to do to have, build, and maintain it) - these are things you can only uncover by spending time together and learning their character first-hand in a normal environment - there are a lot of people who are very willing to waste their own or another person's time - a show like this would probably be a lot better if the concepts of marriage and family (and time wasting for fun and profit) were taken much more seriously
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Rob’s run on Love Is Blind Boston:
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tracking along the way this time 📚 thread of some of the books I've read (or re-read) in 2026 recs welcome/appreciated - you can see some of my tastes in the 2025 list
thread of some of the books I've read (or re-read) this year, no particular order *not all of these are recommendations 😂
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Caught an early screening of Wild Horse Nine last night, I'm 2:2 this week on crying in my seat 🥲
Be the right level of paranoid. WILD HORSE NINE is nine days away. Get tickets now. #WildHorseNine searchlightpictures.com/wild…
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femcels vindicated ✊
Your bedroom should be cold, dark and boring. If it’s also your office, gym and movie theater, your brain never gets the signal that it’s time to sleep.
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my controversial opinion is that she does, in fact, beat eggs in a very weird and ineffective way and if it weren't for all the other stuff I'd argue it's valid to take the bowl
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The absolute funniest thing in the official Scrabble dictionary is *by far* their inconsistent stance on cheeses:
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I generally avoid political posts on here, but I really hope we can move away from this creeping rhetoric where half the country is getting punished based on who they voted for. We've already seen tangible examples with how Colorado was treated. I don't want the next Democratic administration to stiff Florida on hurricane funding to "punish" them for voting red. This attitude is antithetical to the whole concept of the Union and really needs to be addressed (I think it might be something actually worthy of impeachment). We're all Americans regardless of who you voted for. Sadly it feels like bipartisanship is dead sometimes, but we have to try.
President Trump suggests he will not providing funding for Georgia if Mike Collins isn’t elected: They need money for Georgia. I don’t give a damn.
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There's been a lot of people (who all clearly know better) who have greased the wheels to getting Trump elected again by making a mountain out of a molehill (see: Hunter Biden, laptop). So many average (dumb) voters were led to believe that 'everyone's corrupt, so it doesn't matter.' And now, despite the Biden admin being perhaps the cleanest admin in recent history, the country elected the most corrupt administration in history (x100). Anyway, picture unrelated.
In retrospect it was a bad idea for the left to pretend that Pelosi was insider trading
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Inspired by this tweet, a midterm update on Trump playing politics with disaster relief: It's still happening.
Thinking of this post again
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Neither Nicki Minaj (not a citizen), her husband (registered sex offender), nor her brother (serving 25 to life for predatory sexual assault against a minor) are able to vote in the US
Ladies and gentlemen, I think we may have found the new White House Press Secretary! @NICKIMINAJ
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watching brazil defeat fascism while trump gives a speech about nicki minaj’s ass
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I don't even know where to begin but I'm feeling ranty today, I guess, so lfg. in 2024, the US had a trade surplus with Brazil to the tune of $7.4bln, a 39% increase over 2023. Trump is proposing 50% tariffs on Brazil, ostensibly over trade. transparently, we see it's to punish them for prosecuting a criminal he likes while claiming we have a "very unfair trade relationship." Brazil is currently a significant exporter of beef to the US, making up for shortages in domestic production, but I'll get to that later. along with an earlier decree of 10% tariffs on any country that aligns with the "anti-American policies of BRICS," he rants today in an open letter to Lula about "hundreds of secret and unlawful censorship orders to US social media platforms" (a move he calls "insidious attacks on... the fundamental Free Speech Rights of Americans") and the "witch hunt" against Bolsonaro. in the letter, Trump refers to Bolsonaro as "a Highly Respected Leader throughout the World during his Term, including by the United States." as a reminder, during Bolsonaro's term, he: relaxed gun control restrictions, weakened protections for indigenous lands and communities, transferred the oversight on indigenous land to the Agriculture Ministry (a conflict of interest with grave outcomes), enabled illegal mining, increased Amazon deforestation to the highest level in more than 15 years, weakened environmental protections and cut budgets for key organizations, reduced support and protection for LGBTQ communities, falsely claimed people who were vaccinated for COVID-19 were at a higher risk of contracting AIDS, and had to pay damages for slandering one journalist and making sexual comments to another. the "witch hunt" Trump refers to is regarding multiple charges related to allegations he formed a criminal organization and attempted a coup to remain in power when he lost the election to Lula in 2022. how familiar. ftr, he's also told a congresswoman she wasn't worthy of being raped, said in an interview he wouldn't love his gay son, said "a policeman who doesn't kill isn't a policeman," and is nostalgic for Brazil's military dictatorship. how familiar. (shout-out to I'm Still Here, a 2024 film/bp nom based on a true story and set during Brazil's military rule - you should see if you haven't) back to the beef: I'll be a bit of an opportunist here for a topic close to my heart and take this moment to post a map of the companies in the US and abroad who are the largest contributors to Amazon deforestation. these are some of your importers who will see a 50% tariff. beef is the primary driver of deforestation in the Amazon (Brazil is the world's largest beef exporter and could become the largest producer - replacing the US - in 2026). in April 2025, Brazil exported a reported 48,000 metric tons of beef to the US (up from 8,000 tons in April 2024) and, because of the US obsession with beef products, this is largely attributed to a cattle shortage and the "need" for foreign meat not being produced domestically. Trump declares the 50% tariffs are needed to "level the playing field" and "rectify grave injustices of the current regime," claiming Brazil can avoid them by building or manufacturing in the US. but he's simply attempting to bully a trade partner - with which we have a surplus! - to save a dictator with a deplorable record in ecological and social/human rights that he tries to justify with arguments of economics. how familiar.
important film 🧡 find it near you
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prayer circle 🕯 🕯 🕯 🕯 Lula 🕯 wins the 🕯 2nd round 🕯 🕯 🕯 🕯
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This was the obvious motivation, he's going to try to wedge Grok into the film industry to make the cinemas match his deranged twitter feed here's the first step.
Elon Musk has reportedly invested around $1 billion into Skydance (the merged Warner Bros/Paramount company). (Source: semafor.com/article/10/22/20…)
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"Wildwood" took nearly 15 years to make, with 231 puppets and 136 sets, making it the longest stop motion film ever made.
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No offence to the Clankers but I want to learn more stuff from more humans. I went looking for a site or something for this but there isn't one? The closest thing I found was Trade School which had a barter system but closed in 2019. Maybe I'll make one? Basically I want to trade lunch for something you love. If we're in the same place (in the next few months I'll be in Ireland, Portugal, NC, NYC, Colorado, Seattle) let me buy you lunch while you tell/show/teach me something. Online could also work I guess, and I'll send a delivery gift card? I'm up for learning lots of things, some examples - getting better at coding with agents - playing guitar (or if you can teach me asalato it would change my life) or some sort of craft - improving my writing practice - being a gaffer - personal finance - probably anything else you're passionate about I'm leaving my company at the end of the year and this also seems like a good way to find inspiration to decide what's next. Comment or DM if you want to talk about it 🧡
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