What’s amazing to me is how many men haven’t learned how to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Don’t get me wrong: I absolutely LOVE seeing a huge load blow everywhere! What I DON’T love is what comes after: the refractory period, the lower energy levels, the inevitable nap lol. When you learn that you can have the full experience of orgasming without blowing your load, you can keep going… have five, ten, fifteen orgasms. As many as you want! And then when you want to cum, it becomes a choice. I’m so grateful I trained my body to do this in my 20’s.