to get really good at anything you have to be willing to be bad at it
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people find it helpful to try to learn about their abusers, but I don't think it's as much of a useful exercise as people feel like it is. Your job is not to learn about your abuser, your job is to take care of you.
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โEven the Buddha does not let you slap his face a third timeโ is how I try to live
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if you're with someone you don't love, aren't sexually attracted to, don't trust, can't commit to, that says nothing about them and everything about you
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In Vedic astrology I find it ironic how Revatiโs deity is Pushan and heโs about journeys and pathways but I find that even as a Revati native myself, specifically my moon, our ties with people get cut off very abruptly
big believer in people reaping what they sow and itโs really not that esoteric. the recipe you follow makes the cake.
even when people get what they deserve itโs not even karma for what they did to you itโs just all that their life couldโve really amounted to anyway. you plant bad seeds and end up with bitter fruit. itโs very simple.
idk about morality but what i do know is how u treat people matters. u canโt leave energetic blood trails from gashing into someone and expect that not to linger around and follow you. this is precisely why you tie up loose ends.
iโve never been a fan of going tit for tat but now i recognize what it does to your self esteem to always send the message that you are unworthy of defense so now i shake the table when people try me. even when itโs technically โbeneathโ me.
wanting justice to me is not about being vindictive. iโve realized that on the most basic level itโs about checks and balances. when someone does something detrimental to you that goes unanswered for there is an imbalance in the universe that needs to be corrected.







